I am a divorced male; professionally employed and fairly intelligent. While I would describe myself as a leader inside and outside of the bedroom I am not abusive or ignorant. I would like to find something fulfilling and real that does include vanilla activities also includes an abundance of mutually satisfying kinky experiences. I don't sleep around and I honestly not interested in those who do. I do need to have a connection to someone and common interests. I am patient and not pushy. I am not in a rush. Some of my hobbies include playing some guitar (for recreational purposes)baseball, and other sports. I do get turned off by game players and fakes. I have been on similar sites in the past and have encountered my fair share of the pretenders. I promise not to waste your time and respectfully ask that you do not waste mine.

My Ideal Person I am looking for someone who is HWP. I do not mean any offense but I am simply not attracted to larger women.

I would prefer to find someone my age or younger.

I am truly seeking someone who is emotionally and physically available (yes, I realize this is a sex site). I do not like vanilla in the bedroom but prefer frequent kinky encounters that are recurring.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Role Playing, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Sexual appetite, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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