I see you're looking for a friend with benefits. So am I. Friend with benefits means different things to different people, so I'm going to ask (and answer) some questions to see if we're talking about the same kind of relationship. Am I too old for a fwb with you? I hope not. It really is up to you. How important is mutual interests outside the bedroom? It's helpful at the start of the relationship to develop a comfort level with each other. Mutual interests are a good starting point. How important is the sexual part of the relationship? By definition, it's the difference between mere friends and friends with benefits. Those benefits are why we are looking for a friend with benefits. How often should FWB's get together? I'd feel comfortable with something more often than once a month, but not more often than once a week. Once a month starts to feel more like a one night stand. More often than once a week leaves little time for the rest of your life. What's the most important thing FWB's should have for each other? Knowledge of and respect for the other's limits. Do you have any limits (everyone has some limit)? For me, men. I don't mind if another man is there and wants to watch or join. I just won't play with him. Most of BDSM; I've been a Dom in the BDSM scene in Denver in the past. Most of it doesn't do anything for me. I still enjoy spanking as part of foreplay, and I don't mind LIGHT bondage (either giving or receiving) if my partner is into it. Anything more painful just doesn't interest me. Does either party need discretion and why? I think any married per who is part of a FWB relationship needs discretion. Even if they have permission from their spouse to have a FWB. I say this because Great Falls is a small town. One can rarely go anywhere in town without running into someone they know. Explaining who you are with might be difficult if you aren't discreet. I'd love to hear how you feel about my definition of FWB. I'd also love to hear your vision of what FWB means to you. I'd love to hear any thought you have on the subject and whether your search has been successful. Why did I choose AFF instead of some other dating site? Other sites have a primary goal of long term relationships or matrimony. My goal is to find a friend with benefits. Someone I'm comfortable around, and, of course, sex. Sex is important to me. I love it. Everything from the titilating banter with a new potential partner, to the necking and hugging on the first encounter, to foreplay (everything from massage to oral), to the ultimate intercourse. I think about it all the time. I picture all sorts of different scenarios and fantasies. I hope to find someone who can help me act out some of the things I imagine. Ten years ago I was a member of this site. I made several friends (with benefits). I hope to have the same success here and now. It will be a little harder. There aren't as many ladies in GF as there are in Denver. I'm willing to try to be a gentleman until one of the ladies says let's be friends. Currently, I can't host, but I can arrange something discreet.

My Ideal Person I'm looking for a woman, she can be part of a couple, but I'm not bi. I'm looking for someone fairly close to me. I'm still not used to the distances involved in Montana. Age and size are unimportant. I'm willing to accept her as she is as long as she accepts me as I am.