[B]Updated 07/01/2007[/B] I'm an eclectic sort of person. I love to read, and usually go through a novel in one to two days. My preference is mostly scifi and fantasy, but I have a sizable collection of horror and mystery too. My movie tastes are similar, but even more wide ranging. I like to spend time outdoors, hiking, fishing, biking, but rarely seem to get the time to do as much as I'd like to. I've had a varied past. I've managed a coffee house for 2 years. I had a radio show in southern California for a year. I've had horseback riding lessons (English saddle mostly). I'm a passable swordsman, an accomplished archer, and an excellent marksman with rifle and pistol. I normally abstain from the bar scene. While I used to love it, and would go out nightly, I have mostly grown out of that phase of my life. I'd prefer a party at someone's house with friends that gets rowdy to a group of strangers. Personality wise, I'm pretty laid back for the day to day. I try to enjoy life as it comes. I laugh when I can and cry when I need to, and hope that there's more of the former than the latter. I do enjoy kink, but it's not the be-all-end-all of my life. I am straight, but I'm not afraid to be in a scene with another man. I am dominant when playing kinky, preferring to be the one holding the leash rather than the one in the collar. I enjoy evoking the deviant side in people. I am D/D free and I expect my partner to be the same. I'm recently out of a 3 year monogamous relationship. We enjoyed each other's time, but the fire faded over time. I'm not particularly looking for another long term affair, but I'm not avoiding it either. My view is that if it's meant to be, it will happen without forcing it. If we click, if there is chemistry, I'll be there for the long haul. If we don't, then we'll have our fun and go our separate ways.

My Ideal Person The person I'm looking for would look equally as good in a formal evening gown, as she would in a collar and heels. I want a person who's comfortable in a coffeehouse discussing philosophy, a computer store drooling over the newest games, or the bedroom making the neighbors complain about the noise. While my tendencies lean more to the deviant, there is something very special about a tender night on a couch, or gently washing a partner in the shower.

As I said above, I am straight, and I'm looking for a woman. I prefer someone who enjoys her sexuality, instead of treating it as a sin or curse.

If we're to be more than a one night stand, she must like anal sex. Everything after that is negotiable.

When I notice a woman physically, the first thing I see is her face. After that, I'm an admitted breast man. I love the feel of them, the sight of them. All sizes, shapes, colors, textures, they're all beautiful to me.

I do have a deviant streak in my preferences, and I expect that any long term partner would have the same. I'm realistic enough to know that no person will have my exact interests (they are many and varied), but I hope that my partner will be willing to try new things before deciding they don't like something. I consider few things taboo, and I'm willing to discuss all things with an open mind and without judgment. My short list of kinks are anal, bondage, toys, S&M, D&s. I have a pretty extensive "toy chest" and enjoy using them on a willing partner. If your body is on the menu, I'll make sure it's a full meal, not just a quick snack.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
There just isn't enough room here to describe it...
You'll just have to ask...

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
My desk at work

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Leather, Latex, Fisting, Lactation

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Catherine Zeta Jones... mmm... Or better yet, Angelina
Jolie! <br><br>
What DOESN'T happen would be a better question...

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've done it so many times that I've forgotten how to type with two hands.

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