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rm_bonersmudge 62 / M
"Discreet, horny, witty, friendly, sexy couple - and good fun guaranteed!"
Ipswich, Suffolk, United Kingdom
 
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Last Visit: More than 3 months
Member Since: September 18, 2006

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rm_bonersmudge 62/M
Ipswich, Suffolk , United Kingdom
Introduction
Hello, and thanks for checking out my profile! Almost 7 years ago I met a wonderful lady here on AFF. We clicked, went on holidays together and she has now become my wife - and I am very happy! One major condition she stipulated is that we continue to swing it about here on AFF, as a couple. (I'm not complaining!) So, if anyone is interested in swinging with a horny 55/55 couple just send us an e-mail. We'd prefer to swing with either bi guys or couples (straight, bi or bi curious - just be horny and sexy and up for same room fun!) I've come to the conclusion that I'm not bi-curious, rather bi-sexual. Kitten is happy with this, since it will open up so many more interesting possibilities to explore in the future. She's bi-curious, so single men (one or more) and ladies plus couples will be most welcome as long as we share that spark of chemistry. We've moved in together into a nice, discreet home in the country about 7 miles from Ipswich, so we look forward to meeting at a pub and then, if we get on, to coming back to let events take their course! Yum!! [COLOR green]To: Sydney University and all other institutions using this or any Adult Friend Finder site or its associated sites for projects - You do not have permission from me to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal action[/COLOR]

My Ideal Person I was looking for (and have found!) a sexy, intelligent, inventive, mature woman who likes to talk, become friends and enjoys making love for more than just 10 minutes - we play exclusively as a couple.

For sexy friends, if they want to venture into slightly kinkier activities, so much the better, but this is not a criteria. I love plain old, sweaty, vanilla sex (doggy style is my favourite) and Kitten gives the BEST handjobs ever(!) but I can role play as a dominant, using light bondage, flogger, toys, fingers, tongue, feathers, blindfolds etc., or let my wife be the dom who entertains and instructs one or more bi guys whilst I play the subservient, cuckolded slave.

Looks, age and body shape are not a big issue to us (although we'd prefer mature - over 40s - with at least a little padding). It is far more important to be able to be friends, to laugh, to enjoy each other's company and to be mutually uninhibited...

NB We always practise safe sex where penetration is concerned - it protects us all.

Mwah - Tony

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Pink Floyd, Yes, Muse, Robbie Williams, Del Amitri

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Fisting, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Not really - as a younger guy I used to "fancy"
Felicity Kendall and Catherine Zeta Jones (both had wonderful
derrieres lol), but for the last 25 years I've kept
it real!

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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Information
  • 62 / male
  • Ipswich, Suffolk, United Kingdom
Sexual Orientation:
Bi-sexual
Looking For:  Couples (man/woman), Couples (2 women), Couples (2 men) or Trans
Birthdate: September 16, 1961
Relocate?: No
Marital Status: Married
Height: 6 ft 0 in / 182-185 cm
Body Type: Athletic
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I don't use drugs
Education: BA/BS (4 years college)
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Agnostic
Have Children: Yes. We do not live together.
Want Children: No
Male Endowment: Long/Thick
Circumcised: Yes
Speaks: English, French
Hair Color: Salt and Pepper
Hair Length: Receding
Eye Color: Blue
Glasses or Contacts: Glasses