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riversidecpl4cpl 65 C
46  questions
labels? - 3/26/2020

When I was 15 [nearly 47 years ago] my best friend and I "experimented" in boy boy sex. Both of us are now married women and have no desire for man man sex. Are we still labeled as "

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riversidecpl4cpl 65 C
46  questions
paranoia/fear of bi men unfounded? - 2/19/2020

I understand and respect PERSONAL PREFERENCES. This post is NOT an attack or dismissal of anyone's choices. What I am asking are the "preferences" due to paranoid thought process. <

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riversidecpl4cpl 65 C
46  questions
missing posts - 2/19/2020

What is with all the posts being removed. <br><br> Are we being censored?

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riversidecpl4cpl 65 C
46  questions
Pardon the 2nd question - 2/12/2020

What are appropriate "question" or subjects here? <br><br> I see a lot of "what advice are you asking for", "this belongs in a blog", and other "not here

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riversidecpl4cpl 65 C
46  questions
What's in a name? gender neutral names etc. - 2/12/2020

When we first started using the internet to chat we used our real names. But because we both have relatively gender neutral names it caused confusion. <br><br> [although it was fun fu

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riversidecpl4cpl 65 C
46  questions
A poor business venture - 1/30/2020

Every site has good and bad . What my discussion is, do sites like this really want you to succeed? <br><br> If you meet someone from here, they stand to lose two active members. Most l

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riversidecpl4cpl 65 C
46  questions
Death and swinging - 1/23/2020

We are a member of a "travel" consisting of "couples only". The "owner" insists/requires couples only. Neither the F or M of a couple can participate in any type of

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riversidecpl4cpl 65 C
46  questions
A touch of the flu - 1/23/2020

We meet with a new, slightly , couple last night [play was possible]. the F was visibly ill. She was coughing, red runny nose, and other signs. <br><br> She said she had a "touch of

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riversidecpl4cpl 65 C
46  questions
Misdirected anger on Advice Line [points & standard members] - 1/22/2020

Full disclosure... the Advice Line is the main part of Men.Date - Gay Dating that we participate on. [95%]. <br><br> . We see a lot of bitching about posting for directed at the poster. Men.Date - Gay Dating encourages ne

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riversidecpl4cpl 65 C
46  questions
When a lie has truth to it - 1/20/2020

Oh the use of spin to embellish. <br><br> When you read profiles have you ever been impressed at what is written only to find it wasn't quite true? Yet not really an all out lie . <

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riversidecpl4cpl 65 C
46  questions
When a lie has truth to it - 1/20/2020

Oh the use of spin to embellish. <br><br> When you read profiles have you ever been impressed at what is written only to find it wasn't quite true? Yet not really an all out lie . <

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riversidecpl4cpl 65 C
46  questions
what happened to "respond"? - 1/17/2020

I went back to my previous question to respond but it wouldn't allow me to to so. Ha to use the "quote" to respond. <br><br> To quote a song lyric..."how long has this

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riversidecpl4cpl 65 C
46  questions
Who is Marvin? - 1/16/2020

There is much 'in fighting' on this forum. Nothing new, it has been going on for years [over a decade in fact]. It is not uncommon for <br><br> I am recovering from another proce

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riversidecpl4cpl 65 C
46  questions
Testimonials [certifications] - 1/14/2020

Testimonial Description In promotion and of advertising, a testimonial consists of a person's written or spoken statement extolling the virtue of a product. <br><br> In this case the p

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riversidecpl4cpl 65 C
46  questions
left behind - 2/14/2019

Valentines Day is a pretty good hotel play time. Be it only a couple or a swing party. <br><br> This got a few friends talking about hotel stay happenings. <br><br> One thing

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riversidecpl4cpl 65 C
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"gets asked every week" - 9/18/2018

We got an email from someone who now reads but will never post on this forum again. The questions asked was something we felt be discussed here, as the question was asked about this forum. <br>

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riversidecpl4cpl 65 C
46  questions
How would you have done it? - 5/23/2018

Situation: A group owner had regular invite only parties at their home. Due to life being disrupted by financial near ruin, they decided to drastically lower the number of guests. By over half. From

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riversidecpl4cpl 65 C
46  questions
what would you do? - 2/16/2018

You arrive at a scheduled meet and the person is open carrying a hand gun?

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riversidecpl4cpl 65 C
46  questions
relationship advice - 1/31/2018

A friend's 17 yr old was having "relationship" issues. An honor student in school <br><br> Yesterday we had dinner with his parents. During dinner he was telling his story

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riversidecpl4cpl 65 C
46  questions
unisex names - 11/10/2017

Have you ever run into an issue with not knowing if the person is male or female due to their name? <br><br> Often the feminized ones have a different spelling but not always. I know of tw

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riversidecpl4cpl 65 C
46  questions
unisex names - 11/10/2017

Have you ever run into an issue with not knowing if the person is male or female due to their name? <br><br> Often the feminized ones have a different spelling but not always. I know of tw

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riversidecpl4cpl 65 C
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Are they equally harmful? - 11/1/2017

\\ng cheated on is very hurtful? <br><br> Does it have to be physical to be cheating? If a person consistently gives special treatment, attention or {insert any} to someone other than th

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riversidecpl4cpl 65 C
46  questions
Just one of those days? Friday the 13th - 10/13/2017

Do you believe in superstition?

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riversidecpl4cpl 65 C
46  questions
friendly not friends - 9/20/2017

A recent event prompts this question we and want to hear some opinions. <br><br> Your personal definition of what is a friend is a personal choice and will not being challenged. But we ar

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riversidecpl4cpl 65 C
46  questions
Are you ready? - 9/8/2017

With the hurricanes causing people to evacuate many weren't ready. Are you? <br><br> Not just for evacuations but for survival. An 8.1 earthquake hit the coast of Mexico last night.

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riversidecpl4cpl 65 C
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tolerance - 9/1/2017

Do you feel that you can "NOT LIKE" something but not DISLIKE it at the same time? Can you find middle ground?

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riversidecpl4cpl 65 C
46  questions
eclipse - 8/17/2017

Anyone thinking of having an eclipse party/get together? Some afternoon delight? Hell any reason to get together works, right?

We get 82% coverage here.

Do you plan to buy glasse

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riversidecpl4cpl 65 C
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Father's Day plans - 6/17/2017

First to all fathers enjoy the day.

Do you have an "traditions".

Our FD is a day for family to get together and enjoy some fun "competition". Horseshoe, archery and such.

A

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riversidecpl4cpl 65 C
46  questions
interesting concept - 5/6/2017

We were invited to join a "private local group" that is using a profile as the group page. Each "member" has a photo album on the profile that is turned off so only those with password can access. B

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riversidecpl4cpl 65 C
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forced to lie - 4/4/2017

I am sure you have heard people say "I NEVER LIE". <br><br> On most of those people we call bullshit. Not including Santa and such fantasy things with or little white lies, or

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riversidecpl4cpl 65 C
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the past - 3/27/2017

We all have one. It is how we respond as individuals/relationships/groups that matters,

The past is powerful. It can be an anchor to hold you back or a lesson to help you move forwards. Ev

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riversidecpl4cpl 65 C
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clean your own back yard - 3/21/2017

The old saying the "grass is always greener on the other side of the fence" means nothing to us.

If we want our grass greener then it is up US to work towards making it better. Bitching and

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riversidecpl4cpl 65 C
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hobbies and offline activities - 3/20/2017

When do you look at the offline activities of a potential "meet"? Does it weigh heavy on the first meet or do you just "hope for the best"?

Everyone has their own preference that is right f

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riversidecpl4cpl 65 C
46  questions
hey women - 3/8/2017

HAPPY INTERNATIONAL WOMAN'S DAY.

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riversidecpl4cpl 65 C
46  questions
icebreakers - 2/27/2017

Men.Date - Gay Dating offers icebreakers to women and m/f couples looking for men or couples. A recent blog brought up how non swinger "couples" try to get free gold.

The replies debated if they were "fake" o

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riversidecpl4cpl 65 C
46  questions
divorce and family pics - 2/22/2017

How do people handle pictures of their new partner with their ex? The event that has me asking was a woman who was upset her M-I-L had pictures of her husband with his ex still on the wall. (One was

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riversidecpl4cpl 65 C
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open forum - 2/17/2017

We hear it often. But is it?

If Men.Date - Gay Dating intended for this to be an open forum why do they offer the ability to block and delete?



Bonus questions

Why do people get upse

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riversidecpl4cpl 65 C
46  questions
boring? - 2/9/2017

What is boring? Not what things you find boring, but how do you determine what is boring?

Like most other things in life what we find boring is personal preference. But have you ever though

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riversidecpl4cpl 65 C
46  questions
SUPPER BOWL - 2/5/2017

Yes I mean "supper". A news program this morning reported the Super Bowl is the 2nd largest food consumption day in America. (Only surpassed by Thanksgiving)

It is a big deal to us to have

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riversidecpl4cpl 65 C
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sperm donor - 2/2/2017

If you or your mate were asked to donate sperm to help a couple have a what are some thoughts you would have? If you were to donate would you want to know who was getting it or prefer they remain ano

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riversidecpl4cpl 65 C
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Could you survive are you ready? - 2/1/2017

A natural disaster strikes. Are you ready?

We have friends on both sides of the pendulum. One couple has very little food in the house because they eat out. When a storm is forecast they r

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riversidecpl4cpl 65 C
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competition - 1/30/2017

Competition, like most things, it is best when done in moderation.

Friendly competition is great in our opinion. Human nature is to rejoice in prevailing over another in competition. Surviv

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riversidecpl4cpl 65 C
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Does it matter? - 1/27/2017

We were having coffee when we read some articles online and started an interesting discussion. We'd like to hear other's thoughts.

If you read something on a liberal site radical conservativ

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riversidecpl4cpl 65 C
46  questions
Mary oh no - 1/25/2017

Good bye Mary Tyler Moore

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riversidecpl4cpl 65 C
46  questions
Valentines Day - 1/24/2017

Alternative view....

Why do we need a "day" to show our appreciation of love?

I don't get it. WE don't get it. A day for florists and Hallmark to profit? How is doing something on

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riversidecpl4cpl 65 C
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unique vs ordinary - 1/20/2017

Let's face it, the way to attract someone is to first get their attention. Now you try to set up a meet. A cup of coffee at a diner or other public place. Ordinary. And boring.

Why not be

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