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What Price Would You Pay... For Love... ❤️❗  

Paulxx001 63M  
8095 posts
9/15/2020 8:54 am

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What Price Would You Pay... For Love... ❤️❗

Love exalts us into God's arms. It assuredly captures and captivates strangers' eyes. He felt all of them peering in, as she leaned forward, grasped the nape of his neck and kissed him.

After the party when they were safely back at his apartment, he brazenly took her. His fingers dug into her ass as he pulled her close. His tongue plunged into her throat as his other hand slipped up her skirt and brushed her moist spot. She moaned and returned his passion. With both hands, she unbuckled his pants and thrust her slender fingers around the rigid, smouldering heat between his legs.

Imagine how lust's hunger had been fed, for an hour or more. Imagine how each, had commanded the other. It's effortless, isn't it? Later, when she stood at his door he closed his eyes and kissed her slowly, adoringly. There were no passengers to witness his ardour this time.

She smiled and with a gentle twirl of her hair, left. A second later she knocked.

"I forgot my cell on your table."

He walked back into the room then returned with it and kissed her again.

As she sunk into the deep leather seats of the cab, her phone rang. It was him. She answered.

"I told you NEVER to call this number. Did you not understand? If you ever call me at this number again, it will be the last fucking time you ever see me. Understood?"

Then with a growl still painted on her lips, she hung up the phone.

Love does exalt us to God. But there's always a price to pay, for the counterfeit variety.

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Paulxx001 63M  
16857 posts
9/15/2020 8:54 am

Ever been with an escort or a - 'help me out' - set-up date?

Nope, but I've thought about it more than once. Especially when I was younger and had to go to a corporate event alone.
The cost might have been prohibitive or I chickened out.
One of the two, or both. 😶


Paulxx001 63M  
16857 posts
9/15/2020 8:54 am

Has love ever fooled you into thinking you had it - when it was just an illusion?

Many times, but again, mostly when I was young and naive. I'd believe whatever that pretty lady told me.
I'd believe what I wanted to hear.
Yep... what a fool. 😮


author51 57F  
102542 posts
9/15/2020 9:33 am

I have paid the price with my two LTR relationships.One being too controlling and the other who fucked around.. Sounds like the woman in this story Fucked around while not being single.....A price I would never pay.. Either get out of the marriage, or the relationship..A small price to pay for keeping one happy, healthy and Sane......xoxoxo

One can never have enough JOY in their life...


author51 57F  
102542 posts
9/15/2020 9:38 am

My thoughts are.. There is no Love at all when one Fucks around and does not leave one who they say "They Love"....Does not matter whatever situation it is.. "True Love" no matter if there is no sex, physical problems or whatever, does not CHEAT nor keep secrets, like in this story......

One can never have enough JOY in their life...


lust4life59 61F  
834 posts
9/15/2020 10:10 am

Lust and Love, two entirely different concepts, yet intertwined with one another when you're talking about romantic love. Lust without trust is not love. And lust is easy to feel and sometimes fleeting, trust on the other hand comes hard for most , but once earned lasts until broken.


smartasswoman 63F  
33532 posts
9/15/2020 11:46 am

No, I've never used an escort, but I remember back in my late 40's - when I was somewhat newly single and quite horny and not having any success meeting datable men - wishing that it was legal and easily available.

It's difficult to say whether it would have actually been appealing. I have a feeling that real-life male escorts probably aren't the debonair, tuxedo-wearing gigolos that you see in the movies.


superbjversion2 65F
20911 posts
9/15/2020 11:57 am

To this day, I still believe that it's all love. What fools me is when I think it's soul deep but it's really just 6.75 inches.

Sex is to Fun as Square is to Rectangle


sexysixties2 72F  
39202 posts
9/15/2020 12:10 pm

You shouldn't have to pay a price for love....if a price was paid it's not love and wasn't worth it.

"Age does not protect you from love, but love, to some extent, protects you from age."

~~Anais Nin~~


japaneseass 53F  
49867 posts
9/15/2020 12:37 pm

it is the perfect illusion...paul...that's how she makes money....she will tell you, what you want to hear...she will give you what you want for the moment...but at the end of the day, she will never be yours...i don't think that is a bad thing, tho??? is it a bad thing??? what ever she can give you to fill the void you have, you should take it...after all that's why she is there for?


positively4you 71F  
4057 posts
9/15/2020 1:04 pm

Oh I have paid a price for love. Now, I want a refund.


mufdiver69er2 60M  
1435 posts
9/15/2020 1:49 pm

the highest price we pay for love,is the scarring it causes on our hearts when we realize it isnt really there..the more scars..the less feeling left..

woop woop


Paulxx001 63M  
16857 posts
9/15/2020 2:42 pm

    Quoting author51:
    I have paid the price with my two LTR relationships.One being too controlling and the other who fucked around.. Sounds like the woman in this story Fucked around while not being single.....A price I would never pay.. Either get out of the marriage, or the relationship..A small price to pay for keeping one happy, healthy and Sane......xoxoxo
Happy, healthy and sane - now THOSE are a goal to strive for! 👍
In this story, she might also have been hired by the man and she didn't want him too close to her.


Paulxx001 63M  
16857 posts
9/15/2020 2:43 pm

    Quoting author51:
    My thoughts are.. There is no Love at all when one Fucks around and does not leave one who they say "They Love"....Does not matter whatever situation it is.. "True Love" no matter if there is no sex, physical problems or whatever, does not CHEAT nor keep secrets, like in this story......
That's true. It was fake love, at least on her part. That's sad for him. 😶


Paulxx001 63M  
16857 posts
9/15/2020 2:45 pm

    Quoting lust4life59:
    Lust and Love, two entirely different concepts, yet intertwined with one another when you're talking about romantic love. Lust without trust is not love. And lust is easy to feel and sometimes fleeting, trust on the other hand comes hard for most , but once earned lasts until broken.
Lasts until broken... or for some, lasts a lifetime - if they're lucky 🍀! 👍
Lust and love ARE very different. Some do confuse the two, dont they? 🤔


Paulxx001 63M  
16857 posts
9/15/2020 2:49 pm

    Quoting smartasswoman:
    No, I've never used an escort, but I remember back in my late 40's - when I was somewhat newly single and quite horny and not having any success meeting datable men - wishing that it was legal and easily available.

    It's difficult to say whether it would have actually been appealing. I have a feeling that real-life male escorts probably aren't the debonair, tuxedo-wearing gigolos that you see in the movies.
Ahhh... the movies - where most of us (including me) form our impressions.
I'm In this city I found out where to hire them and learned a thing or two along the way. It was very pricy but satisfaction was guaranteed... whatever that meant.
I never found out. Hmmm...
True about movies shaping our thoughts.
Pretty Woman? 🤔


Paulxx001 63M  
16857 posts
9/15/2020 2:51 pm

    Quoting superbjversion2:
    To this day, I still believe that it's all love. What fools me is when I think it's soul deep but it's really just 6.75 inches.
Yep... 6.75 might just about do it for many.
Im pretty sure men feel the same way. ❗😶


Paulxx001 63M  
16857 posts
9/15/2020 2:52 pm

    Quoting sexysixties2:
    You shouldn't have to pay a price for love....if a price was paid it's not love and wasn't worth it.
I wouldn't disagree but then I look at a movie like Pretty Woman.
True it was only the screen, but that ended up with a happy ending.
Or is that just a fairy tale? 🤔


Paulxx001 63M  
16857 posts
9/15/2020 2:55 pm

    Quoting japaneseass:
    it is the perfect illusion...paul...that's how she makes money....she will tell you, what you want to hear...she will give you what you want for the moment...but at the end of the day, she will never be yours...i don't think that is a bad thing, tho??? is it a bad thing??? what ever she can give you to fill the void you have, you should take it...after all that's why she is there for?
True... I think it's up to the guy to decide, especially since he's the one paying for the illusion.
I keep going back to Pretty Woman. That illusion eventually convinced him it was ok.
Ya get what ya pay for, dontcha? 🤔


Paulxx001 63M  
16857 posts
9/15/2020 2:57 pm

    Quoting positively4you:
    Oh I have paid a price for love. Now, I want a refund.
Many feel like you do.
On the other hand, ya didn't get your moneys worth? 🤔 It's tough to put a value on that. How do you measure a broken heart? 🤔


Paulxx001 63M  
16857 posts
9/15/2020 2:59 pm

    Quoting mufdiver69er2:
    the highest price we pay for love,is the scarring it causes on our hearts when we realize it isnt really there..the more scars..the less feeling left..
True about scars and less feeling.
Some say that the cure for that is to open one's heart and give into love again. That's a risk many aren't willing to take.
I gather you're not willing to do that?
But I understand where you're coming from. 😶


lighthousecollec 58F  
911 posts
9/15/2020 3:10 pm

    Quoting author51:
    My thoughts are.. There is no Love at all when one Fucks around and does not leave one who they say "They Love"....Does not matter whatever situation it is.. "True Love" no matter if there is no sex, physical problems or whatever, does not CHEAT nor keep secrets, like in this story......
I have to agree with author51 on this one. If you are not happy get out or change it. I have been cheated on and that's not love. That's just your studip self thinking it's green on the other side. If you have been hurt so many times it's hard to open your heart up again


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Paulxx001 63M  
16857 posts
9/15/2020 3:15 pm

    Quoting lighthousecollec:
    I have to agree with author51 on this one. If you are not happy get out or change it. I have been cheated on and that's not love. That's just your studip self thinking it's green on the other side. If you have been hurt so many times it's hard to open your heart up again
True about willing to take the risk and the consequences that come with it.
Especially if you know what the other person's true feelings are.
Now, if you're being fooled - who's fault is that? 🤔
Some people are really good actors aren't they? 😶❗


mc_justmc 60M  
6619 posts
9/15/2020 4:00 pm

If she didn't want him calling the number, why did she give it to him?

To all the women above me that have considered, but never pulled the trigger, I can be had for a nickel!


positively4you 71F  
4057 posts
9/15/2020 4:20 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Many feel like you do.
    On the other hand, ya didn't get your moneys worth? 🤔 It's tough to put a value on that. How do you measure a broken heart? 🤔
Well, since you asked, the std was rather pricey.


mufdiver69er2 60M  
1435 posts
9/15/2020 4:42 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    True about scars and less feeling.
    Some say that the cure for that is to open one's heart and give into love again. That's a risk many aren't willing to take.
    I gather you're not willing to do that?
    But I understand where you're coming from. 😶
oh..i never said im not willing. lol. the problem is..the more scar tissue the less healthy heart left to touch..

woop woop


Paulxx001 63M  
16857 posts
9/15/2020 6:32 pm

    Quoting mc_justmc:
    If she didn't want him calling the number, why did she give it to him?

    To all the women above me that have considered, but never pulled the trigger, I can be had for a nickel!
I was trying to be brief, perhaps too brief. My bad!
As a working girl and paid girlfriend she wanted to separate her personal phone from her business cell. He might have accidentally found out her private number?
Who knows what else she's got going on? But a good question, none the less. He's becoming TOO needy?

I'll pass on the message. Sounds like a reasonable number! 👍


Paulxx001 63M  
16857 posts
9/15/2020 6:34 pm

    Quoting positively4you:
    Well, since you asked, the std was rather pricey.
Hmmm... I can well imagine.
I understand. ❗🌹


Paulxx001 63M  
16857 posts
9/15/2020 6:36 pm

    Quoting mufdiver69er2:
    oh..i never said im not willing. lol. the problem is..the more scar tissue the less healthy heart left to touch..
Ahhh... Perfect analogy and unfortunately quite true. I can relate to that.
I'm hopeful that pineapple 🍍 juice and a healthier lifestyle will be my savior.
At the very least - make me taste good ❗


sexysixties2 72F  
39202 posts
9/16/2020 12:04 am

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    I wouldn't disagree but then I look at a movie like Pretty Woman.
    True it was only the screen, but that ended up with a happy ending.
    Or is that just a fairy tale? 🤔
Definitely just a fairy tale....but a favourite of mine!!

"Age does not protect you from love, but love, to some extent, protects you from age."

~~Anais Nin~~


Paulxx001 63M  
16857 posts
9/16/2020 2:25 am

    Quoting sexysixties2:
    Definitely just a fairy tale....but a favourite of mine!!
Everyone loves a happy ending and a fairy tale, regardless of how real it is.
And that's what keeps us all going back for more - the hope that THIS time... it'll turn out different.
Silly people... lol 😂
Ooops.... I'm one of them. 😎


EnigmaInitiative 52F
4056 posts
9/16/2020 2:04 pm

Are you talking about Love or Sex?

Love, I believe, cannot be counterfeited. Some people love differently than others, doesn't make it less real.

Sex, on the other hand, I ain't paying monetarily for it, that's for sure.

In a sense, sexuality is the built-in psychedelic experience that only a very few people manage to evade.

~Terence McKenna


scoupe42 57M  
9125 posts
9/16/2020 5:13 pm

The price of love. I got a funny story for you, my neighbor got married to his liast wife. Wife #5, when he want sex, his wife would ask him. "Do you want the free sex of the $300 sex. The free sex, is no foreplay, kissing, she lay there with a robe and no panties, and he drop his wad in her, she get up clean herself and sleep in the other room. The $300 sex, she naked, kissing, foreplay and he can have sex multiple times and she would spend the night wth him. He said, he 'd take the $300 sex, this before he got her debt free and she divorced him. Dude, you have a talent of telling a story! Good one.


Paulxx001 63M  
16857 posts
9/16/2020 7:06 pm

    Quoting EnigmaInitiative:
    Are you talking about Love or Sex?

    Love, I believe, cannot be counterfeited. Some people love differently than others, doesn't make it less real.

    Sex, on the other hand, I ain't paying monetarily for it, that's for sure.
She, was an escort He paid for sex but was falling in love.
She offered him what he wanted but he got carried away.
There's such a fine line between love and sex when it comes down to it. When men or women have sex, they blur the lines - don't they? That's what this story was about.
Glad you enjoyed it. 🌹😎❗
Are women different when it comes to sex and love? Or is it des desperation and loneliness that drives emotions? 🤔


Paulxx001 63M  
16857 posts
9/16/2020 7:14 pm

    Quoting scoupe42:
    The price of love. I got a funny story for you, my neighbor got married to his liast wife. Wife #5, when he want sex, his wife would ask him. "Do you want the free sex of the $300 sex. The free sex, is no foreplay, kissing, she lay there with a robe and no panties, and he drop his wad in her, she get up clean herself and sleep in the other room. The $300 sex, she naked, kissing, foreplay and he can have sex multiple times and she would spend the night wth him. He said, he 'd take the $300 sex, this before he got her debt free and she divorced him. Dude, you have a talent of telling a story! Good one.
Ok... Your story was crazier than mine. lol 😂 Wow! Really? 🤔
That one is worth telling!
Glad you liked my tale. But this stuff happens all the time, if you use escorts! Thanks for popping in and sharing your tale! 👍


EnigmaInitiative 52F
4056 posts
9/17/2020 1:17 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    She, was an escort He paid for sex but was falling in love.
    She offered him what he wanted but he got carried away.
    There's such a fine line between love and sex when it comes down to it. When men or women have sex, they blur the lines - don't they? That's what this story was about.
    Glad you enjoyed it. 🌹😎❗
    Are women different when it comes to sex and love? Or is it des desperation and loneliness that drives emotions? 🤔
I don't believe this is a gendered thing...this is not women are different when it comes to sex and love. In my mind, it's a some people struggle with separating love from sex. I don't happen to be one of them.

Emotions are complicated and can be driven by any number of things. Love cannot be defined simply.

In the case of your story, who is to say she doesn't love him in her own way just because she doesn't want him getting too close. Maybe it's to protect her own heart...how would one know?

In a sense, sexuality is the built-in psychedelic experience that only a very few people manage to evade.

~Terence McKenna


Paulxx001 63M  
16857 posts
9/17/2020 3:58 pm

    Quoting EnigmaInitiative:
    I don't believe this is a gendered thing...this is not women are different when it comes to sex and love. In my mind, it's a some people struggle with separating love from sex. I don't happen to be one of them.

    Emotions are complicated and can be driven by any number of things. Love cannot be defined simply.

    In the case of your story, who is to say she doesn't love him in her own way just because she doesn't want him getting too close. Maybe it's to protect her own heart...how would one know?
True... with those observations
Protecting her heart? 🤔 hmmm... Who knows?


Only_one_14 51F  
1648 posts
9/18/2020 9:59 am

Some people are very good actors then again- she left her cell phone. You took her number. She didn’t give it to you. Why would you call it? I mean ... you did hire her for your lustful desires. I wouldn’t think you would fall in love that fast.

“Women have a wonderful instinct about things. They can discover everything except the obvious.” ~ Oscar Wilde


Paulxx001 63M  
16857 posts
9/18/2020 11:28 am

    Quoting Only_one_14:
    Some people are very good actors then again- she left her cell phone. You took her number. She didn’t give it to you. Why would you call it? I mean ... you did hire her for your lustful desires. I wouldn’t think you would fall in love that fast.
I don't think it's the first time around the block with her. In her rant to him, it's implied that she's warned him before.
I think he initially hired her. Then hired her again and again, until... HE thought, she was actually his woman.
There's a blurry line between acting and really GOOD acting. She must have been REALLY good.
I might have been fooled. But then again, I don't have those type of bucks.
You might have been fooled if that guy played a PERFECT part. No? 🤔
She probably had a 'work' number and... a private number. He thought he'd earned the right to call the private phone. Hmmm... Ooops. ❗😮🔥😎


Only_one_14 51F  
1648 posts
9/18/2020 1:24 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    I don't think it's the first time around the block with her. In her rant to him, it's implied that she's warned him before.
    I think he initially hired her. Then hired her again and again, until... HE thought, she was actually his woman.
    There's a blurry line between acting and really GOOD acting. She must have been REALLY good.
    I might have been fooled. But then again, I don't have those type of bucks.
    You might have been fooled if that guy played a PERFECT part. No? 🤔
    She probably had a 'work' number and... a private number. He thought he'd earned the right to call the private phone. Hmmm... Ooops. ❗😮🔥😎
I know of a few men who play the perfect part.....They have skillzz! I fancy that raw talent and regret to say that I don’t have to energy to keep that falsehood alive!!

How much is it to call Canada? I’ll start saving my money! 😘

“Women have a wonderful instinct about things. They can discover everything except the obvious.” ~ Oscar Wilde


Paulxx001 63M  
16857 posts
9/26/2020 4:38 pm

    Quoting Only_one_14:
    I know of a few men who play the perfect part.....They have skillzz! I fancy that raw talent and regret to say that I don’t have to energy to keep that falsehood alive!!

    How much is it to call Canada? I’ll start saving my money! 😘
Skillz? 🤔 Reeeelee... hmmm...
These days ya don't need a phone ta make a call or chat. All sorts of options out there. 😊
It's a warm night tonight. Happy Saturday ❗ 😎 🍷 🍷


sexyldy1000 59F  
6889 posts
9/30/2020 11:49 am

Nope never paid nor was paid to be with someone. I have received some 'interesting' offers through this site. No matter what was proposed, it would never be sufficient for me to agree to the 'arrangements'. Love, on the other hand, has had many 'costs' which went far beyond monetary value.

Stimulate my mind and let's see what happens


Paulxx001 63M  
16857 posts
9/30/2020 10:03 pm

    Quoting sexyldy1000:
    Nope never paid nor was paid to be with someone. I have received some 'interesting' offers through this site. No matter what was proposed, it would never be sufficient for me to agree to the 'arrangements'. Love, on the other hand, has had many 'costs' which went far beyond monetary value.
Proposals? Here? Reeeelee... Hmmm...
Now that begs closer inspection. Care to share... in vague yet interesting terms? 🤔
Costs of love...? You mean broken hearts or shattered wallets? 🤔


localmotion50 70M
44 posts
10/9/2020 11:30 am

I used to pay with my whole weekly pay check. Now I can do what i love and have money left over.


Paulxx001 63M  
16857 posts
10/9/2020 9:26 pm

    Quoting localmotion50:
    I used to pay with my whole weekly pay check. Now I can do what i love and have money left over.
I believe I understand EXACTLY what you mean.
I imagine there are quite a few people who might share your point of view. Thanks for stopping by and sharing your thoughts. Drop by any time!


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