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CplCuriosity 54M/45F  
131 posts
9/16/2020 4:20 pm
An AFF Question...


When someone messages you and says they like your profile yet they don't show up as someone who has "viewed you" what does that mean? Has anyone had experience with this?

I would probably go anywhere you wanted to take me
But my favorite place is always on the edge.


CplCuriosity 54M/45F  
116 posts
9/16/2020 4:21 pm

Thanks to anyone that can shed some light on this for me!

I would probably go anywhere you wanted to take me
But my favorite place is always on the edge.


CMShan06 46M  
12 posts
9/16/2020 5:51 pm

There's a link in the privacy setting where you can select to be invisible when viewing profiles.


bbuckwwheat 61M
4592 posts
9/16/2020 5:58 pm

Many people set the privacy settings to set off the notification that they viewed a profile. If they find someone interesting they should probably change that setting and view that profile before contacting someone.

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Massass1963 57M
292 posts
9/16/2020 5:58 pm

Don't trust the "who's viewed you" too much. I get notification that a few have viewed me, but then it shows an additional few, as well. I don't think anyone can fully figure this site out.


CplCuriosity replies on 9/18/2020 12:04 pm:
Isn't that the truth! I've been told it has shown me as online when I wasn't. Lot's of sketchy things on here that I dont trust.

papis_baby_girl 41F
5344 posts
9/16/2020 6:03 pm

it means they like your profile... what's the question?

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Brownie202 63F
1874 posts
9/16/2020 6:05 pm

Some people want to view profiles in private. Your numbers of views goes up but not all that view you is on your viewed me list. It can also mean he just said it. I get those messages but the person meets NONE of my preferences. Shows he is full of it. Some say they love my picture. That is before I had one. So many bull shitters.

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CplCuriosity replies on 9/18/2020 12:05 pm:
Thank you!

KimbarkSon 68M  
213 posts
9/16/2020 6:06 pm

It has happened to me but I just figure it's one more glitch in the site's system. If you're concerned that something more sinister is happening contact the site's administrators.


CplCuriosity replies on 9/18/2020 12:07 pm:
Lots of glitches! Thank you!

traxxtime 44M  
110 posts
9/16/2020 6:09 pm

sometimes i have found that the persons profile is actually turned off and they view your profile so you cant see them. I also seen the site do fake views to try and get you to sign up for gold membership.


umaykissmesoftly 63F
291 posts
9/16/2020 6:11 pm

I have no idea, but I don't check to see who viewed me. That's what profiles are for, to be viewed. I don't even bother with the flirted or hotlisted me lists. If someone is interested, they'll send me an e-mail, I don't respond to anything else.
By the way, I never would have thought to cross-check e-mails received with the viewed me list.


CplCuriosity replies on 9/18/2020 12:09 pm:
I just happen to be the type of person who notices things. It can be both a blessing and a curse. 🤷‍♀️

ULIXBIG 65M
8157 posts
9/16/2020 6:15 pm

Well observed! There is probably something dodgy going on ...


CplCuriosity replies on 9/18/2020 12:09 pm:
Thanks! Very few things get past me. lol

Pleasureinc 56M  
1387 posts
9/16/2020 6:21 pm

They may have selected in the privacy section of their profile to not inform others when they look at a profile. OR....they may be untruthful when they imply that they have read it.


lonlyforlove2 77M
16818 posts
9/16/2020 6:48 pm

As some have said, the invisible mode , can be used, not sure that this would explain your condition, but anything can and will happen here, it is a crap shoot every time we get on!!!!

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CplCuriosity replies on 9/18/2020 12:10 pm:
For sure! Thank you!

ltrskr 72M  
4413 posts
9/16/2020 7:04 pm

This site generates a lot of of views to make u think there is a lot of action, ignore it and move on....
Good luck!


CplCuriosity replies on 9/18/2020 12:11 pm:
Thanks and I have 😊

agedfun1 73M  
642 posts
9/16/2020 7:15 pm

It may also be an Men.Date - Gay Dating bot just randomly hitting you. I get "viewed" by standard members and standard members cannot view profiles. They get the sign up for premium page instead.

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CplCuriosity replies on 9/18/2020 12:12 pm:
Thanks!

benard69 63M/63F  
5246 posts
9/16/2020 7:23 pm

Until you are actually and physically toasting a glass of wine it doesn't mean shit...


CplCuriosity replies on 9/18/2020 12:12 pm:
Lol True.

classicalrebel4 65M  
1490 posts
9/16/2020 8:29 pm

They might not have actually viewed your profile before messaging. I get hotlisted and flirts from young women who haven't viewed my profile. I think some people just randomly do stuff like that maybe just for the hell of it.

Please don't let me be misunderstood.


CplCuriosity 54M/45F  
116 posts
9/16/2020 9:51 pm

Thank you all! It's super helpful to know how the site actually works is all (or to try to know). Its not that its a huge deal one way or the other. I'm a logistics person. Thanks to those who had useful suggestions and helpful things to consider. I'm relatively sure I know what the deal was and just like that (to anyone who might have been concerned I would not be able to let it go)... *poof* it's gone.

Have a fantastic night peoples!

I would probably go anywhere you wanted to take me
But my favorite place is always on the edge.


hobbit4019 40M
15 posts
9/16/2020 10:02 pm

I think that they wanna hook up


CplCuriosity replies on 9/18/2020 12:13 pm:
Not happening lol

BiggLala 48F  
28830 posts
9/17/2020 1:03 am

As others said, it could be they have their settings to view profiles invisibly. BUT...I tend to think the person who messages and says they liked my profile, yet don't show as having view it is full of shit. They're just trying to get me to believe they read it. Thus...whenever someone says they liked my profile, I ask what they specifically liked about it. I used to have a "test" in there that demonstrated they read it. Only a small few "passed"...hence, the rest were full of shit.

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positively4you 71F  
4021 posts
9/17/2020 6:27 am

I put a question to be answered in my profile. If they answer it, I know they read it. I view profiles in private. Some guy wrote me twice about my nice smile, which is not visible. That told me it is his canned profile response. Meant nothing.


CplCuriosity replies on 9/18/2020 12:15 pm:
Wow yeah that's pretty telling. I mean, what? lol Thanks for your input!

ltrskr 72M  
4413 posts
9/17/2020 7:42 am

    Quoting CplCuriosity:
    Thanks to anyone that can shed some light on this for me!
If your not living on the edge, your taking up too much space!


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