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......and Then there is This !!  

jajo696 113F
556 posts
2/22/2020 6:36 am
......and Then there is This !!


an addition my previous post abt correct information.

See Post Below ~

jajo696 113F
4287 posts
2/22/2020 6:44 am

.......just this week, i receive an email. The thumbnail sketch.....which is all i am allowed ...says he is age 55. A regular introductory email. I respond with..." thank you but you are way off in age /distance. " His response, " oh but i travel and the age is not way off, that picture is 10 yrs old, i have less hair now, but i am age 69" I answer with, " so what am i to believe, either you lied when you signed on or you are lying now?" He responded with, ' I guess my being married is a problem".

Never acknowledged the age factor/lie.

As LaLa said....take anything everyone says here with an enormous grain of salt .
Wise woman , she is...

Oy Vey ~~.


jajo696 113F
4287 posts
2/22/2020 6:48 am

One wonders IF his pants have gone up in flames. A registered incendiary device.....lol

liar liar pants on fire ./'./'./'


Itstartswith 62M

2/22/2020 7:47 am

LOL, you are so right and what you say is so true. Seems that many people lie about their age and probably everything else including using pics that are 12 years old. So yes, take everything with a healthy grain of salt. Doesn't stop me from looking though.


jajo696 replies on 2/23/2020 2:28 am:
People have taught me this after being here for awhile. Grain a salt, grain a salt, grain a salt....lol. Thank you for responding.~~

Brownie202 67F  
2680 posts
2/22/2020 7:58 am

To some our preferences shouldn't matter. This is a sex site. Not a dating site they say. I get messages from men who only meet one preference out of all I have. They say I am your age but leave out being attached, not close and all the rest. Its like one thing they meet should be enough for me. If I didn't care what age i wouldn't have my age only. If him being in a relationship was ok with me I wouldn't have no attached men. Just two examples of what most men do not meet.

Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth.

If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.


jajo696 replies on 2/23/2020 2:31 am:
True fact....some dont read...some dont care. For some, both apply. Which is why we both, males n females, must weed thru the weeds...of life. Thank you for your thoughts ~~

easy_going2014 57M
14366 posts
2/22/2020 8:05 am

thanks for sharing

the pluses

you are getting interaction

there is a two-way street

however, multi-dimensional it may be

the minuses

all the wrong things

the only thing funnier would have been if you wrote his comments in Chinese and yours in Russian

just sayin'

reminded me of this

Dua Lipa - "Be the One"

I see the moon
I see the moon
I see the moon
Oh, when you're looking at the sun
I'm not a fool
I'm not a fool
I'm not a fool
No, you're not fooling anyone
Oh, but when you're gone
When you're gone
When you're gone
Oh, baby, all the lights go out
Thinking, oh that, baby, I was wrong
I was wrong
I was wrong
Come back to me, baby, we can work this out
Oh, baby come on, let me get to know you
Just another chance so that I can show
That I won't let you down, oh no
No, I won't let you down, oh no
'Cause I could be the one
I could be the one
I could be the one
I could be the one
I see in blue
I see in blue
I see in blue
Oh, and you see everything in red
And there's nothing that I wanna do for you
Do for you
Do for you
Oh, 'cause you got inside my head

To leave private messages, please use my confidential mailbox at my blog:

Good luck!!!


jajo696 replies on 2/23/2020 2:49 am:
i agree....it is nice to get the communications. Its just a Mars/Venus way of communicating at times. We are both clear in thought individually, but when those thoughts come together.....chaos ensues...lol.

Yet....we still carry on~~

Thanks for your thoughts..

MMXX2020 53M
174 posts
2/22/2020 8:06 am

a quick facetime should clear any visual misrepresentations


jajo696 replies on 2/23/2020 2:35 am:
yes....you re right. The physical misrepresentation wasnt the issue here though. I rarely am concerned about that anyway. The outright age tale could have been discussed, should have been discussed and his not acknowledging that, was the issue. Makes me wonder what else would have gone unacknowledged, IF i had continued to talk with him. Just my thoughts, and thank you for yours~~

seems6666 53F  
4838 posts
2/22/2020 8:17 am

Yes, I think with that amount of fibs, he will spontaneously combust!


jajo696 replies on 2/23/2020 2:36 am:
lol...cracking up. I see the trail of smoke..as i write this. lol

Thank you ~~

bill50819 74M

2/22/2020 8:53 am

LOL sounds like a nice normal man, the kind you'll meet on this site. After all what can one expect for free or a mere 39 dollars. In short the guy can't read LOL Just life in the fast lane on here.


jajo696 replies on 2/23/2020 2:38 am:
lol.ohhh man....normal ? like what the heck is that ?? Normalcy or any semblance of is in short order around here...lol.

Thanks for your thoughts ~~

fearful3 33F
516 posts
2/22/2020 9:22 am

Some folks don't talk to you , they talk at you, and they don't answer , they reply.They don't listen, they're just waiting til you're done then they continue.


jajo696 replies on 2/23/2020 2:42 am:
#facts. That is an issue in life....toooooo many people dont listen, they listen to reply, they dont listen to understand ( sigh ).

I soooooo agree with you. Thanks much ~~

pagancountrygirl 66F
6466 posts
2/22/2020 10:49 am

He's had his pants treated with industrial strength fire retardant. lol It's the only way he can write those messages! lol
I've had messages similar to the one you wrote about and it's like fearful3 states in her comment...they talk at you, they reply and they don't listen. Your preferences are completely immaterial and their wants are the only things you should consider.

Pagan
Hmmmm....I know I left that wand around here somewhere!


jajo696 replies on 2/23/2020 2:40 am:
ohhh jeeze....pagan...THIS made me spit out my tea @ industrial strength.....lololollling. Yup....talking at ya. Ugh !!

Thanks for commenting ~~

HAMONMAN 64M
13128 posts
2/22/2020 1:14 pm



That guy sounds like a politician or lawyer: EVASIVE AF

It always cracks me up at the number of ' 69 ' year olds on this site.

I have a buddy here who will be truly 69 this year, but of course his displayed age has been back-dated 5 or 6 years and has been since forever.

Age-liars . . . always get caught.


jajo696 replies on 2/23/2020 2:45 am:
Hamo......you are right man !! Evasive AF...ugh ! So?? your buddy is an age liar too...

we must get him some of that industrial strength fire retardant spray for his pants. Hmmm...maybe Walmart...aisle 13 right next to the cans of Patience ~~

lol

Thanks for commenting ~~

jajo696 113F
4287 posts
2/23/2020 2:26 am

    Quoting  :

and it sounds like your goals are perfectly reasonable, with twofold ness you are doubling your chances . With life events its never known when a faraway someone will become closer both in availabilty and geographics.

I had an aunt who has since passed ,who lived on Moody St..old factory brick building turned into apts in Waltham . 190.

Thank u for these comments.~~


jajo696 113F
4287 posts
3/7/2020 5:32 am

    Quoting  :

zactly right. My issue is.....if you lie from the very beginning, everything from that point forward is based on a lie. Many dont understand that. Since..i dont go by profiles or pictures, ones words is all i have......and if we cant open n honestly communicate.....its a huge problem. .....and this guy...lol..he sidestepped that whole conversation. Good luck to him....elsewhere.
Thank you for your thoughts...yup...unreal...indeed !!


justme51 72M

3/24/2020 2:38 am

Lol I’m 25 years old I am a model also a actor in pron movies. I drive a Ferrari. How about a date? Don’t mind my photo it’s what I will look like when I’m old.


jajo696 113F
4287 posts
3/24/2020 4:57 am

    Quoting justme51:
    Lol I’m 25 years old I am a model also a actor in pron movies. I drive a Ferrari. How about a date? Don’t mind my photo it’s what I will look like when I’m old.
.....and you my friend are a nut !! lol. See ?? and none of that stuff matters to a woman of substance...we are looking more for the enduring heartfelt inner qualities...to rely on when the equipment fails and the ferrari gets all rusty ~~


merlot5555 67M/57F  
1472 posts
4/15/2020 10:59 am

....probably one of the more honest discussion on this site... I don't know why anyone would misrepresent... unless they have no desire to meet anyone... and even there, it's kinda lame... even if you only want to make online acquaintances a little honesty goes a long way....

....as for the sex site/dating site thing.... that's a little murky .... everyone has different degrees of libido and curiosities.... if you are plain vanilla, simple dating sites might be perfect....

...if you hope to meet folks where your interests and curiosities of a more physical nature line up, it makes more sense to interact with a group of like minded people....in all our other interests in life people who have an interest in something tend to congregate....thus the reason for a site like this....just my humble opinion....

....and for the record, my stuff is current ... lol .... well some of the drawings I put in blog posts might be a bit dated.....artistic license ... lol ....


jajo696 113F
4287 posts
4/18/2020 11:55 am

    Quoting  :

I completely agree Travel....its nice to see whom has viewed ya. Yet...once you have seen them and conversation begins...its the lies that i cant support. I would prefer to talk to someone who is honest even IF they dont meet the criteria....just be truthful about it. I have no issue with talking to someone...whoever and wherever they are. Its just made clear from the onset...there will be no bonus happening ~~
Thanks for your thoughts...


jajo696 113F
4287 posts
4/18/2020 12:01 pm

    Quoting merlot5555:
    ....probably one of the more honest discussion on this site... I don't know why anyone would misrepresent... unless they have no desire to meet anyone... and even there, it's kinda lame... even if you only want to make online acquaintances a little honesty goes a long way....

    ....as for the sex site/dating site thing.... that's a little murky .... everyone has different degrees of libido and curiosities.... if you are plain vanilla, simple dating sites might be perfect....

    ...if you hope to meet folks where your interests and curiosities of a more physical nature line up, it makes more sense to interact with a group of like minded people....in all our other interests in life people who have an interest in something tend to congregate....thus the reason for a site like this....just my humble opinion....

    ....and for the record, my stuff is current ... lol .... well some of the drawings I put in blog posts might be a bit dated.....artistic license ... lol ....
To me....even if ya not planning on meeting...thats more reason to come clean.....but i get for some ...this is ALL about fantasy and they have no intent on being real. Those are the ones that wind up hurting others...ugh !

Ive always maintained that here is a people site...just like those other so called main stream sites....as they are all abt the flesh too but are wrapped up in nice packaging. Here ...said packaging has already been ripped off..lol....and we can get abt the business of finding those like minded people that you speak of.

Glad your stuff is current...mine is too. Nice to meet you...( laughing ).

.......and thanks for your words ~~


mc_justmc 63M

5/16/2020 5:33 am

wow, married is a big one, but he really really mis-represented his age.


jajo696 113F
4287 posts
5/16/2020 6:04 am

    Quoting mc_justmc:
    wow, married is a big one, but he really really mis-represented his age.
correct......he really, really REALLY did....and skirted right over that little fact. lol.
Liar liar pants on fire~~

Thanks for your comment...


goingdwnoften 71M
3 posts
9/20/2020 6:55 pm

I am absolutely certain that I am 68 years old...I know that because I am fairly good with math, and I am able to subtract this year from my birth year and come up with an age....lol....I do NOT however know what age my profile claims that I am....nor do I recall wanting to project a particular age when I first logged into this site...hopefully my pants are not on fire....

Rob


goingdwnoften 71M
3 posts
9/20/2020 6:57 pm

AHA!!!!!! MY AGE IS CORRECT ON MY PROFILE.....You will not need a fire extinguisher handy to talk with me


jajo696 113F
4287 posts
9/20/2020 10:23 pm

    Quoting goingdwnoften:
    I am absolutely certain that I am 68 years old...I know that because I am fairly good with math, and I am able to subtract this year from my birth year and come up with an age....lol....I do NOT however know what age my profile claims that I am....nor do I recall wanting to project a particular age when I first logged into this site...hopefully my pants are not on fire....

    Rob
" fairly good at math ".....perfect...i wish all of us were as good. My profile words are honest too. Look at us...the rare honest ones...lol.

Thank you for stopping in and sharing ~~


jajo696 113F
4287 posts
9/20/2020 10:26 pm

    Quoting goingdwnoften:
    AHA!!!!!! MY AGE IS CORRECT ON MY PROFILE.....You will not need a fire extinguisher handy to talk with me
Oh....you made me laugh at this one. Thank you cuz i was certainly getting short on fire extinguisher funds.....i wudda had to have you purchase your own IF you were a fabricator. Hurrahhhh...the funds are still intact and in savings for another one. Whew ~~

.....and as always, Thanks


Unzipmeslowly51 54M

6/25/2021 7:11 am

Its getting harder to spot the fakes here and the amount of multiple profiles is getting worse. I try to be as honest as possible, and will disclose certain personal details to people i trust. Why lie? Whats the point. People who lie must never intend meeting. Just talk the talk.


jajo696 113F
4287 posts
7/18/2021 12:28 am

    Quoting Unzipmeslowly51:
    Its getting harder to spot the fakes here and the amount of multiple profiles is getting worse. I try to be as honest as possible, and will disclose certain personal details to people i trust. Why lie? Whats the point. People who lie must never intend meeting. Just talk the talk.
It IS getting worse....and they have inflitrated Blogville too now. I agree....why lie..especially if you intend on mtg. Its very sad that we must be skeptical of every effing body...ugh !! Thank you for these thoughts~


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