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Friday... Vacation Day!!  

secret_lade 49F
14097 posts
7/3/2020 4:24 pm
Friday... Vacation Day!!


Boss #2 was gracious enough to let me take a much needed vacation day today.

It was fricking amazing...

The weather is absolutely gorgeous and Lake Michigan was amazing. The Spawn and I spent two hours just lounging in the water following the sand bars down to the point. It was a beautiful enough that I was able to let go of my anxiety over my Middle going to Detroit on Monday to do his ASVAB testing.

I'm thankful he won't be alone as he will be on a shuttle bus with other Pooley's. (Apparently that's what they're called when they're still in the candidate pool.) I'd be lying if I said it wasn't pulling at my heart strings watching him take these steps into adulthood.

It helps to see him so excited about it.

I'd thought he was staying at his Dad's last night when he came home around 7 o'clock excitedly telling me he had his first workout with the recruiter.

OMG! You scared me! I thought you were staying at dad's.

No, I was working out with the Pooley's. I did 39 pull ups. Surprised myself. Thought I was going to puke twice....

OMG! Why? Are you ok??

When you exercise your core, if you have food in there, it works itself back out.

OMG! I don't like this!

I've got this mom! (Huge smile on his face.) Your boy didn't puke.


So, yah, I'm struggling, but I'm accepting. I also had to accept the fact that he's also found himself a different job. We will be coworkers no more.....

I really liked having him work with me, too.

secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
7/4/2020 4:37 pm

    Quoting lonlyforlove2:
    You are just going to conceded to your self he is growing up , and fast...
Not only is he growing up, but, he's going to be going away from me, for long periods of time. I think it's that part that upsets me the most.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
7/4/2020 4:35 pm

    Quoting easy_going2014:
    Hi secret_lade

    thanks for sharing today's "vacation" day with me

    that was nice

    I felt your stress level go down significantly

    hope you get those workouts going soon

    hmm

    be safe

    Alicia Keys - "Brand New Me"

    It's been a while, I'm not who I was before
    You look surprised, your words don't burn me anymore
    Been meaning to tell you, but I guess it's clear to see
    Don't be mad, it's just the brand new kind of me
    Can't be bad, I found a brand new kind of free
    Careful with your ego, he's the one that we should blame
    Had to grab my heart back
    God know something had to change
    I thought that you'd be happy
    I found the one thing I need, why you mad
    It's just the brand new kind of me
My key card is fixed, so I did get to the gym today. I was the only one there... It was fantastic.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
7/4/2020 4:33 pm

    Quoting mc_justmc:
    39 pullups????? Holy shit, not sure I could do 10, .............or 1 even... now that he's not working with you, maybe you and Nose Hairs can "boom chicka wa wa" in the store room.
As long as Nose Hairs has a girlfriend, there can't be any boom chicka wa wa. LOL I try not to complicate my life any more than it has to be, these days.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
7/4/2020 4:32 pm

I know, tell me about it!! I didn't know he had it in him!


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
7/4/2020 4:31 pm

    Quoting citizen4722:
    I'm glad you got the day off. What a great remedy for getting rid of your anxiety
I've been pretty stressed out at work... So it was amazing to just be able to step away from it for two long weekends. It has worked wonders for me.


citizen4722 66M  
74582 posts
7/4/2020 7:37 am

I'm glad you got the day off. What a great remedy for getting rid of your anxiety


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
7/4/2020 1:05 am

39? Wow ! That's nuts !!!


mc_justmc 63M

7/3/2020 6:51 pm

39 pullups????? Holy shit, not sure I could do 10, .............or 1 even... now that he's not working with you, maybe you and Nose Hairs can "boom chicka wa wa" in the store room.


easy_going2014 57M
14366 posts
7/3/2020 6:35 pm

Hi secret_lade

thanks for sharing today's "vacation" day with me

that was nice

I felt your stress level go down significantly

hope you get those workouts going soon

hmm

be safe

Alicia Keys - "Brand New Me"

It's been a while, I'm not who I was before
You look surprised, your words don't burn me anymore
Been meaning to tell you, but I guess it's clear to see
Don't be mad, it's just the brand new kind of me
Can't be bad, I found a brand new kind of free
Careful with your ego, he's the one that we should blame
Had to grab my heart back
God know something had to change
I thought that you'd be happy
I found the one thing I need, why you mad
It's just the brand new kind of me

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lonlyforlove2 81M
32704 posts
7/3/2020 5:42 pm

You are just going to conceded to your self he is growing up , and fast...

Stop by at lonlyforlove2
also see Lunch with Lonly , we get snow tomorrow
Check my blog on New Community, "A photo of my big Pecker"
also, " My Sunday afternoon with the kids'


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
7/3/2020 5:09 pm

    Quoting  :

Thank you, that was a very kind comment. And, you wouldn't believe how proud he was that he didn't puke! LOL He'd said some of the other pooley's had. LOL


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