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The Blogging Vibe  

hotdreamer1000 64M
8670 posts
2/2/2021 3:47 am

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The Blogging Vibe


I missed the blogging vibe.

I know my memory may be coloured by rose tinted nostalgia, but I miss the days when I was writing with lots of people who were sharing real thoughts about life's issues, hopes and fears, interesting new topics with a bit of sexy flirting on the side.

But I also know that to have a friend you have to be a friend. So I put aside my nostalgic thoughts and went looking.

I haven't found anything.

I have found;
The bloggers who will do anything to get a comment. Nothing new there. Sometimes there are even interesting posts - they are not that popular for no reason. But it rarely results in any meaningful interaction for me.

The bloggers who write good erotic stories, but rarely reply to anyone's comments. Again, nothing new. You can tell by checking "most recent comments by username." They don't comment much on anyone else's blogs. I sometimes suspect them of not quite being who they say they are.

I have found a couple of people posting jokes and funny pictures from the internet - nothing wrong with that, but it doesn't get me fired up.

I have found people complaining a lot about the site and the people on it. (like I am in this post. lol.) I am rarely drawn to those kinds of people. (Not you Marisia - your complaint was a legitimate one!)

So maybe I will keep looking for a while. Or maybe I will accept that times have changed, or I have changed, or something has changed anyway, and go back to real life in Dreamer Towers.

I did have a lovely email this morning from someone who used to be on this site who became a real friend, wanting to catch up. That made me smile.

Ah, those were the days.......

lindoboy100 61M
23969 posts
2/2/2021 9:02 am

Hope all's okay with you McDream!

Aye, I remember those days.......happy times. The pish that some people blog nowadays is, well, it's dumbing things down hereabouts........a bit like the real world I guess. Can't be helped.

I do remember Shyram and the Rainbowsox girls very fondly, haven't heard from either in a while.


hippiechick1967 60F  
13154 posts
2/2/2021 11:36 am

I miss the blogging vibe to.
Like you, I have looked through for meaning.
I found a couple to add to my watched list, but nothing that gets me out of bed in the morning, if you know what I mean. I keep hoping my watched list will bling out yellow with the old-timers.
Times have changed, but I'm gonna keep looking for a while.
I hope to see you around!

Elevate me...


hotdreamer1000 64M
12409 posts
2/3/2021 4:41 am

    Quoting lindoboy100:
    Hope all's okay with you McDream!

    Aye, I remember those days.......happy times. The pish that some people blog nowadays is, well, it's dumbing things down hereabouts........a bit like the real world I guess. Can't be helped.

    I do remember Shyram and the Rainbowsox girls very fondly, haven't heard from either in a while.
Hello mate, good to see you, and I will drop by your blog.

I haven't heard from the girls either, and I think I had the same request from Kay - the address we had is no longer live I think. If you do hear from them, wish them well from me and do ask them to drop me a note.


hotdreamer1000 64M
12409 posts
2/3/2021 4:42 am

    Quoting hippiechick1967:
    I miss the blogging vibe to.
    Like you, I have looked through for meaning.
    I found a couple to add to my watched list, but nothing that gets me out of bed in the morning, if you know what I mean. I keep hoping my watched list will bling out yellow with the old-timers.
    Times have changed, but I'm gonna keep looking for a while.
    I hope to see you around!
I'll be there Hip.

Rather than something to get me out of bed, I was hoping for something to get me into bed, h-har!


hotdreamer1000 64M
12409 posts
2/3/2021 4:46 am

    Quoting  :

Thank you for the rebuke bigglala - you are right of course! I have found I had less to say over the last few years, and I don't want to be writing just a contrived post.

Part of the problem for me is that I find I need someone to think I am writing for, and without the interaction on other blogs the inspiration does not strike often. But you are right of course, and I promise I will write if I think of anything worthwhile.

Great to see you and thanks for being there.


hippiechick1967 60F  
13154 posts
2/3/2021 5:34 pm

    Quoting hotdreamer1000:
    I'll be there Hip.

    Rather than something to get me out of bed, I was hoping for something to get me into bed, h-har!
"I'll be there Hip."

See now that right there, that's some good writing!

Elevate me...


hotdreamer1000 64M
12409 posts
2/4/2021 12:41 am

    Quoting hippiechick1967:
    "I'll be there Hip."

    See now that right there, that's some good writing!
Thanks for the compliment, lol. And you inspired me to write even more!


sexysixties2 106F
39750 posts
2/4/2021 9:31 am

I miss the old days here too Dreamer but as you say the times have changed....and so have I. There was a time when I would spend hours crafting a post....making bling to go with it so that it would have more than the one image allowed then and I enjoyed doing it.

There have been many changes in my life over the past three ot four years and I find that my time....and how I spend it is more important to me than blogging. I check my watched blogs now and ignore the rest.


"Age does not protect you from love, but love, to some extent, protects you from age."

~~Anais Nin~~


hotdreamer1000 64M
12409 posts
2/4/2021 9:36 am

    Quoting sexysixties2:
    I miss the old days here too Dreamer but as you say the times have changed....and so have I. There was a time when I would spend hours crafting a post....making bling to go with it so that it would have more than the one image allowed then and I enjoyed doing it.

    There have been many changes in my life over the past three ot four years and I find that my time....and how I spend it is more important to me than blogging. I check my watched blogs now and ignore the rest.

Yeah, you've got to be careful I had forgotten how much time it all took - I'm just beginning to remember!

You've got to be really into it and not have much else on to be here enough to get things moving I think.


marysia4u 68F
15417 posts
2/4/2021 12:00 pm

Bring back the good old days when there were seas of yellow.

Too many great bloggers have gone, but glad you're hanging in there.


hotdreamer1000 64M
12409 posts
2/4/2021 2:26 pm

    Quoting marysia4u:
    Bring back the good old days when there were seas of yellow.

    Too many great bloggers have gone, but glad you're hanging in there.


Better make the most of it - I can already feel it might not last!


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