Update Sept 2014 I've replaced my intro text, and put the old version on my blog page. So cruise over if you're curious!! If I send you a wink, it's my way of wanting to know if you may be interested in hearing from me. By all means, please wink back or hotlist me and I will definitely send you a message. I generally won't send more than 1 intro email. If you don't reply, I pretty much realize that you aren't chomping at the bit to get to know me. heh heh I feel that the women here are basically bombed and sometimes harassed by over-eager or ignorant guys. I hope to subtract myself from that perception. I'm a regular guy, a music professional and a 'Corpo-Rat' too. I'm non traditional, multi-faceted, quick-witted with intelligence and mucho charm. Into blues, rock and jazz music. Some classical too. I will go to a bar with a friend or friends or to meet up with someone occasionally, but don't hang out in them. I value my free time and don't think sitting on a bar stool will help to give me what I want out of Life. I'm adjusting to Midwestern Living and really enjoy having four seas. Gives me a chance to change up my activities according to the time of year. Want to know more? Ask away. I will answer with crystal honesty. Why am I stepping outside my marriage? I have my reas; Basically it comes down to experiencing as much as I can while I'm young enough to enjoy and remember it!! haaaaaa

My Ideal Person Looking for the kind of woman that wants to see if getting naked together would be fun !! It's actually even fun to find out. Chats, phone calls, meeting in public is totally recommended, because it increases one's chances of connecting in a good way! If you wish to meet in private, like a hotel or whatever, I can relate. Although I'm here to find a compatible fit,It doesn't have to be about sex; but hott, sexual fun is pretty much why I'm here...

Being friends or lovers or both works for me. It's all good. As long as you aren't neurotic or really negative and narrow-minded, we can find common ground to start. Will we find enough? Can't know the answer until we get there, right?

I have some pics, but generally won't share them unless asked and I'm interested in you... I have a pic in my network, so please ask to join my network for a peek. I work for a very public multi-national corporation, and just can't risk someone recognizing me. That is why I don't have a pic on my public profile. Can you imagine THAT memo?? hahaha