I'm generally an easy-going guy, sort of the nice-guy-next-door type, but also enjoy being sexually dominant when the situation calls for it. Quite straight, but not scared of an MFM should the situation arise. I go for quality over quantity, preferring to get between a woman's ears before her legs. I'm told I'm rather good, not because I'm God's Gift To Women, but because I make sure I address their needs. My sense of humor is probably my second most defining quality, even if you'd never guess it from This paragraph! Since I joined here, I've married a wonderful woman. I told her up front before we even started dating seriously that I'm a Mostly-one-woman man, and she doesn't like that, but accepts it. (Did I mention she's wonderful?) So we continue to have sort of a 'don't ask, don't tell' arrangement. I'm both picky and discreet, so I'm not looking for a lot to tell and even less to have her ask about. * Update: My wife knows I have an account here, and will sometimes even close some of the more-than-I-have-time-to-write-to profiles I leave open (which I find kind of hot, with its implicit approval of meeting the ones she leaves open!), so don't think I'm a typical disgruntled or selfish cheater. * If you find my situation unacceptable, you're certainly entitled to your opinion, and I wish you luck looking elsewhere. ** Update: Apparently she only Said she was okay with that, as we're now separated and probably divorcing. So I guess I can add to my interests "A woman interested in a Mostly-one-woman man for possible LTR." Otherwise, my interests etc are still largely the same... Strangely enough, as a single I got little more than chat, when I was engaged I was literally turning women away, and as soon as I got married interest pretty much dried up again. Despite this, and/or to help me keep my promise to not let the frequency/number of my outside activities interfere with my primary relationship, I'm generally only interested if you are serious about potentially meeting and at least one, and preferably more, of: Sub, Married, Engaged, or Open to Pregnancy-Risk sex. (Tho all sincere responses will still get the courtesy of a reply.) And although I hate that so many profiles included something dorky like this, it's become obvious that a growing number of ads here are fakes cobbled together from other profiles, forcing me to add the annoying disclaimer, too: \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\***WARNING ANY INSTITUTION OR OTHER ENTITY USING THIS SITE OR ANY OF ITS ASSOCIATED SITES FOR STUDIES, PROJECTS, COMMERCIAL GAIN, ETC. YOU DO NOT HAVE MY PERMISSION TO USE ANY OF MY PROFILE OR PICTURES IN ANY FORM OR FORUM BOTH CURRENT AND FUTURE. IF YOU HAVE OR DO, IT WILL BE CONSIDERED A SERIOUS VIOLATION OF OUR PRIVACY AND WILL BE SUBJECT TO LEGAL RAMIFICATIONS.***

My Ideal Person I've found I have a thing for attached women. I suppose the Ideal would be a curious fiancee, cheating newlywed, or soccer mom wanting to explore her wild or submissive side(s), but compatible interests and personality are more important than any specific scenario or appearance checklist, or even relationship status. (I'm not looking to be a homewrecker, though, so we'll discuss your situation before things proceed too far. Discussion-only responses used to be welcome so long as you were honest about your intent up front, but I'm sorry I no longer have time for chat without reasonable intent/interest towards meeting.)

Anyone I do meet should understand that while I both have full intent of getting together and do genuinely care for my sexual partners, I have my priorities. I intend to keep the promise to my my now-wife that I would not let my occasional discreet dalliances detract from our primary relationship.
* Update: And I kept that promise but stupidly told her when she asked. But now my kids are my priority; I don't necessarily require as much discretion, but my schedule is probably just as busy.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
see below

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Light Bondage, Slave/Master, Making Home "Movies", Blindfolds, Pregnancy Risk, Whatever she likes

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Same/similar fetishes, A little of each

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Nothing too exciting here, since I am more into personality
and circumstance than celebrity, but it Would be nice to
have Denise Richards or Scarlett Johansson arrange for
me to have discreet access to their hotel rooms the next
time they're in the area...

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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