Just moved back to Portland after 3 years away. Excited to be back! Young professional-highly educated. Willing to play in a M/F (threesome) scenario. Bi-curious with little experience. Generally submissive and enjoy riding crops, spanking, blindfolds, and wrist restraints. Like to watch and be watched.

My Ideal Person Educated, fun-loving couples who are willing to play separately and together. Singles can be ok too as long as they follow rules and respect the lifestyle dynamic. She is a sapiosexual who is turned on by intelligence and good conversation. Must be willing to make a social/intellectual connection before play. It is not uncommon to talk for a few weeks or more before meeting in person. It is generally most comfortable for husband this way too. If playing with a female, would need one who is willing to guide and be patient with learning. People who are willing to be friends as well as playmates-willing to go hang out, get a drink, etc. NOT LOOKING FOR: One night stands. Men who expect to play right away/after a couple texts or messages. Those who don't take care of themselves. Pushy people.