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The STD and Prophylactic Discussion.
Posted:Mar 21, 2015 11:06 pm
Last Updated:Mar 28, 2024 4:17 am
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I am sick and tired of having the STD/HIV proof of current NEGATIVE test result and prophylactic (condom) discussion. You meet a guy and you're getting along, you're attracted to them, and they seem to be attracted to you. You begin to discuss engaging in sex (hooking up) and then comes the adult discussion on my part about current std/hiv test results and prophylactic use.

He doesn't want to wear one. He's STD/HIV negative, he’s never had an STD, he's too big, he’s too wide, he can't keep it up when wearing one, he's allergic, other women have not complained, other women don’t require a condom or STD tests, he can’t test because his Dr. will tell his wife, he'll pull out. He promises.

Well let's think about this logically. I'm STD/HIV negative too. I know I am because I saw the test results from the doctor when I went and got myself tested.

Do you have your STD/HIV test results? How many women have you slept with that let you go bare? Do you have their STD/HIV test results? What about all the other men they slept with? If you could talk them out of making you wear a condom do you think they made the other men wear one? Did you ask them if they were STD/HIV negative? I mean you haven't asked me and you don't even know me. So, you trust me now? After a few chats/texts/fone calls?

There seems to be HUGE kink in your logic here. So, the answer is NO you can't go without a condom. I don't care what the issue is that you have with getting tested or wearing condoms. The truth is I don't trust you and all the women you've slept with or the people they have slept with. I don't understand why this is always such an argument and matter of contention for adults trying to engage in sex.

Let me simplify things for all men, If you do not have current STD/HIV test results from a medical facility/legitimate doctor and refuse to use prophylactics then you will not be having sex with me. For those of you that believe Oral Sex is safe without a prophylactic please do not contact me.

Before you send me negative commentary…..PS- I do not mean this to be only about men, but I do not engage in sex with women, so my experience is from the male perspective. I am also aware of the argument that condoms don't protect against everything so you might as well not wear them at all, in my opinion this argument is ignorant and ridiculous! Now to the people saying that the problem could be solved by not having sex? BRAVO. I'm glad that you're in a long term relationship with a trusted partner, or that you've decided not to have sex. But I like sex, I like sex a lot. I choose to engage in sex with those that feel about safety as I do….This post is to prevent those that feel differently from contacting me.
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