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The best laid plans of mice and men
Posted:Jan 4, 2014 12:23 am
Last Updated:Jan 9, 2014 6:59 pm
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As the saying goes. Oh! Happy New Year all!!
Hope you had a good start to the year. Mine did not go according to plan, to say the least. And I actually did take time to plan..but oh well, you know how it goes. SO, this was my last week of the year, up til right about now.

The bf had been traveling and was back on the day after Christmas so I went to pick him up at the airport and ended up spending the first half of the day at his place. We had made plans for that evening so mid afternoon, he got dressed and we left for my place. We had walked out hoping to get a cab, and exactly when we hit the main road, it started to rain heavily. It was probably only 20-30 seconds in the rain and we were completely drenched. I was only in a cream pullover dress and had nothing on underneath so, it was full blown wet t-shirt experience. You'd think that cabs would stop for that but no...had to wait about 20mins before we got one

That was that. Then there was the New Year's eve. It has been an annual thing that I meet up with my usual group of friends for New Years eve. It used to be a full-on swing party but over the last few years, a few of the couples have had so it's more of a casual gathering now. Although it's not uncommon for some of the adults to disappear at a stretch of time. It usually gets a lot more intimate when those with leave for the night. Anyways, so yea, I haven't seen all of them in a long while, at least not all at once, and have been looking forward to that for at least a few months. So what happens when the day arrives? I pick out a nice black party dress, even matched my underwear and kept that a secret so as to be a surprise for the bf for that night. Then midway through dinner, I get some allergic reaction. My skin started flushing and rashing, and my breaths were labored, at best. I made it past midnight to celebrate the New Year, but had to run to the hospital cos I had trouble breathing.

SO yea, New Year's day, sexy black dress, porn star pumps with matching undergarments, getting injections and sleeping in a hospital The Drs can't explain what I'm allergic to, but I guess I should, and am glad, that it wasn't too serious. Bummed out I missed the fun though. Heh..

It's not all doom and gloom though, which brings me to now. I'm spending my first weekend of the year out of the country Not far though. The good thing about this weekend getaway is I got plenty of sun. It's the start of the year too so the place is rather empty. Earlier, we lazed the late morning til mid afternoon away by the pool and it was nice to finally go topless under the sun. We haven't planned for anything but will probably head out later. I'd like to his a club or something but we'll see. Hmm...don't wanna jinx it but, the year end, nothing turned out quite as planned after much planning. We didn't plan for this trip until the day before we left Let's see what the rest of the year brings.

Happy weekend all!
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Christmas plans..amongst other things
Posted:Dec 14, 2013 9:21 pm
Last Updated:Jan 19, 2014 6:57 pm
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Well, before I get down to what we have planned, I want to write about something that I've been wanting to write about for awhile now before I forget again.

Spent most of yesterday lazing around the pool at a friends apartment and, being this close to the holidays, it was quite crowded. There was an elderly couple there that, like most of us, were covered very sparingly. Aesthetically, they didn't look like they were in best physical shape (I'm just saying...not being shallow or anything! ), but something about their self-assuredness and confidence about themselves was very attractive. They were both in white, she was in a two piece with a thong bottom, and he was in a tiny white speedo, which I couldn't help but notice his hard on in. But I think, personally, the most appealing thing about them was that they were still very much into each other. Which is always nice to see Maybe it's a reflection of what I've always wanted myself...? Yesh..psychoanalyzing myself-always a scary thing

Anyways, I found myself getting turned on at the time. I had no thoughts or desires to get it on with them, just very turned on. The bf's currently out of the country so I was contemplating if I wanted to find company for the evening. I grab my phone, not decided on anything as yet when I noticed I had one missed call and a message from mr married. Some back and forth messaging and he was to pick me up later in the evening. We were about to head back to my place but at the spur of the moment, I suggested we stop by his office for awhile, and he didn't put up much of an argument against the idea.

It was about five plus in the evening by the time we got there and it didn't take long before we got into it. I insisted we kept his office door open as well as the blinds of the windows up but we kept the lights off so it was relatively dark inside. I was literally on my back on his desk with my legs up in the air, with his head buried between my legs when I look out the window behind him and notice the window cleaners with their ropes and cleaning equipment doing their thing. I couldn't help but laugh out loud cos I remember the last time we saw these guys came down the windows.
They obviously couldn't see us this time round, so we just continued. At one point, I even insisted we turn sideways so we could both watch them outside while mr married was behind me humping away

So anyhow, the bf will be back only after Christmas and he's suggested a somewhat, interesting present for himself. In a nutshell, he wants drive around all night, looking for random places to fuck in. Admittedly, it really doesn't sound too sexy to me The attire, for me at least, are red heels, red lacy thong bottom and a red and black garter top (Christmas-y, I gotta admit). Stipulation is, I have to be in that attire the whole time, meaning leave the house, brave my way to the car and drive around in it. That bit sounds quite exciting But the pulling up under a bridge or beside a road and fuck part, uh...a little bit of a turn off But we'll see if anything can be done about that. Of course my immediate concern is getting caught, by the police. Not too fun. Guess IF it happens, we'll just have to be careful. IF we do, and any of you happen to see anything, do me a favor and don't take pictures
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Camping.
Posted:Nov 28, 2013 9:24 pm
Last Updated:Nov 29, 2013 7:48 pm
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Ok, will get to camping soon, but figured this other thing should be what I'd blog about so here goes.

Of being responsible.
Had some friends over last evening for a makeshift house warming. I wasn't planning on having it last evening but had been putting it off every week so last evening, they decided to crash over, which was fine. It was the first time I had guests over since I moved so I rushed home from work and tried to tidy up as best I could, which meant I dumped everything into my room.

The bf came by to help me out too so that was nice. Everything went well too until after dinner, some of their got restless and started running around. There's no door to my room. I had it removed cos it didn't close properly and I figured I didn't need it cos I was staying alone anyways. So, we were sitting around in the living room and one of my friend's , who is 2 years old, ran out clutching something in his hands. Before my eyes could focus on what he had, he had passed it to his mom, who, at the point, gasped really loudly, causing everyone to turn, and grabbed it from him. Her older , who is 4 years old, had seen this, and exclaimed, "look! Mummy's got Teddy's chew toy!" At this point, everyone saw what it was and started laughing. Before I could react, my bf jumped up and grabbed my dildo from her

I was seriously caught off guard and was torn between feeling embarrassed, and sorry. So I just got up, and in between bursts of laughter, kept apologizing to them. I just kept saying it's clean.. LOL I was like..."fuuuck!" SO yeah, I felt a lil responsible...of course I would. It was mine, after all..heh. But yea, it wasn't a big deal (actually, it is. It IS a 9-incher, after all LO but it really wasn't. They DID surprise me and I DID mention that my room was out of bounds..

Moving on. The bf had suggested we go camping this weekend. Well, not like camping in the woods sleeping outdoors camping. More like pitching a tent by the beach and sleeping outdoors camping. I DO like camping, of the few times (like..3 times, maybe) I've been camping. But here? Hmm...

It's gonna be hot and humid, and no shower. Actually, there will be showers. There are places that we can go to shower, but that's not the main hurdle. It is going to be fucking crowded. I mean, what place isn't here. But on weekends, by the beach? Crazy. I'm all for setting up a campfire and cooking outdoors and all. But no real privacy? I dunno...Sex in tents can be quite fun..all hot and sweaty If we can manage it outdoors, even better. Hahaa..but here? I'm real skeptical. Not crazy about the idea...but he's quite enthusiastic about it so...ah shit. We'll see...
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While fucking...
Posted:Nov 24, 2013 7:30 pm
Last Updated:Nov 25, 2013 8:37 pm
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Ok, this is not a common occurrence but it has happened once or twice before A few nights ago, one of my partners and I had checked into a hotel room. I had got there first so I had switched on the tv and was in the shower when he got there. He joined me in the shower and we eventually moved to the bed. It was going good, nice hot and heavy, with a bit of ass slapping. Halfway through, we swapped and I went on top, and was now facing the tv, when, still grinding on him, I got distracted by the tv. It wasn't like I was watching it intently, I just got distracted It was some cooking show...I can't even remember. He had to slap my ass pretty hard to get my attention back and I just broke out laughing It's funny how that happens. Still, it wasn't so bad.

THEN, on Saturday evening, I had just got back from the gym so I was tired. I had the bf over and we were fooling around on the couch in front of the tv. I didn't get distracted this time cos we switched off the tv, mainly to keep the place dark cos the windows were open and I wasn't really crazy about showing my neighbours how I got down

We got into it and midway through, he was standing, leaning over the couch and I had my legs pressed over me, you know, feet in the air, knees close to my face. He was humping away, when my phone rang. I didn't know what got into me, cos I'd normally just not answer, but this time, I did. Not even thinking, I reached over and answered my phone. I was breathing hard, and tried to not sound it LOL The call turned out to be a friend of mine calling to confirm our meeting on Sunday and I tried to end it politely. I had pushed the bf back but he was still slowly and rhythmically trusting away, although not as hard. It was fucking hard to speak LOL.

If you haven't tried it, I wouldn't recommend it. I hung up as fast as I could, I remember I kept going "ok..okok.ok". It's such a break in character but...ah well.
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Midweek Rambling
Posted:Nov 14, 2013 5:02 am
Last Updated:Feb 8, 2014 8:29 pm
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Wanted to post about my last weekend which was such a surprising fun time but something else came up and...oh what the heck. Let's do the weekend and then I'll touch on what's bugging me.

Last weekend I took a short trip out, well..I actually accompanied mr married on one of his golfing trips. I tried to be interested for awhile and lasted shortly past an hour in the morning before I got bored and excused myself and went to the pool. Mr married thought that was not a good idea considering he saw the bikini I brought and that there were going to be families by the pool. We didn't know for sure, but we both figured it wouldn't have sat well. So next best thing I found was renting a quadbike. Or ATV. I don't know what the name is officially but its those bikes with 4 wheels..

ANyways, my plan was, to rent one and ride along the beach to look for a secluded spot so I can soak in some sun. Well things didn't go exactly as planned. I had to wait awhile cos I was alone and they (the people at the hotel running this) figured it was more cost effective to put me in a group. Secondly, for safety reasons, and because I didn't have a riding license, I had to ride with one of their instructors for a round, then I fetch him around a course for a round to demonstrate my ability to control the bike. Which was fine enough, EXCEPT the fact that I could feel his hard on in the small of my back the whole friggin time Then, after everything, the final whammy came when I was told I wasn't allowed to ride off on my own :S So that plan flew out the window. The ride was quite fun though. It had rained midway through and it got all muddy and stuff.

After all that, I was preparing to head back to the room to clean up when I figured I'd pass the pool to check it out anyway. Good thing I did. Cos the pool area wasn't empty, but I saw 2 couples lounging around and the ladies were topless. I looked around and there was a family at the other end of the pool, their playing in the shallow end. To be sure, I asked one of the pool boys (which made me kick myself for not approaching them earlier) and apparently, cos of the monsoon season, there was low occupation in the hotel and usually, in the late afternoons, they didn't really mind. Strange rule, but what the heck. The sun was creeping back out and I figured I could use a swim so I ran up, cleaned up, changed and lazed at the pool til evening when the man was back.

One of his friends brought us to a rather exclusive club. I thought we were too old for that but it actually turned out really nice. Think it was more the mood we were in. ANyways, shortly after, they got us a room on the second level overlooking the dance floor. After a few drinks, we slunk into a couch in the corner and things started getting a little heated. I was seated on his lap and had undid his pants and was literally jerking him off. He then spun me round and pressed up against me, and, seemed liked we were about to fuck right there and then. It felt like a good idea, and maybe years ago we would have. But I figured I wasn't crazy about getting down and nasty in front of the other people in the room so I stopped and insisted we head back.

So he stood up, and pulled his pants up, which was kinda funny so i laughed When I got up, only then did I realize that he had taken taken my skirt off. It was a wraparound skirt so he must've pulled it apart in the heat of the moment. Only thing was, the skirt had fallen on the floor and was somehow kicked halfway under the couch. Yeah....it was disgusting. I tried picking it up but when I touched it, it was kinda wet. I stood there for awhile when mr married suggested, fuck it. Let's just go like this. And I thought, ok. Fuck it. So I adjusted my thong, which I was really glad was nice, and walked out. Hopped into the car we went in, drove back to the hotel and walked through the lobby back up to our room. THere were a few cat calls and whistles outside the club..hahaha

It felt good We got back to our room and picked up where we left off til Sunday morning. I even made him skip golf LOL We spent the entire Sunday shuttling between the pool and back to our room before we left in the evening. SO yea, last weekend was good. Tiring, but fun. Let's hope this weekend fares as well.

Before that, ok. Yesterday, a friend of mine called to tell me she found porn on her 's computer. Which is pretty normal, I guess. Equally scary to deal with for some people, but quite predictable. Only thing is, it was her 's computer. And it was lesbian porn. Her 's 16. So she called me, and we talked at length about it. First up, I'm not sure why she figured to call me. Not sure if that should have offended me. But I'm not, so let's move on. Then, she kept insisting that I speak to her . According to her, they have had the 'talk' so that's not what she wants me to do. This friend of mine, figured that since I make no point to hide the fact that I have had same gender relationships, and am still actively so, would be an ideal person for her to open up to. I'm like...what?! The first thing I did when I heard that, was laugh so fucking hard my tummy literally hurt.

Okay, I can see where and what she's getting at, but seriously? She's a dear friend of mine, but seriously?! After some cajoling from her, I agreed. Only IF her wanted to speak to me. I see no point in me calling her. If she wants/needs an ear, then ok. I see no point in dragging what must be an equally embarrassing situation any further. Poor girl. And Poor parents too. But still. The bf thinks it a little offending but, I'm not so, I'm leaving it at that. SO yea. Kinda minor now that I've typed it out but...hmm

Anyways, the weekend is near so..let's hope all of us have a nice end to the week.
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A few things to get off
Posted:Oct 27, 2013 8:45 pm
Last Updated:Feb 8, 2014 8:30 pm
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Happy Monday y'all.
It's the weekend back and this being Monday, slow and sluggish as it is, let's post some things and get it off my mind. Hopefully.

My Weekend -
My weekend was fun, hopefully yours was too. Attended a wedding lunch on Saturday and it was...okay. Normally, 'okay' wouldn't get any mention but considering the circumstances, I'd take 'okay' I was real hesitant on going and wasn't planning to attend until late Friday night. The bf has insisted that I go, so early Saturday, we went. I was hesitant cos it was a friend from my old workplace, which is run by mr married, who would most certainly be attending. I felt a little...okay, plenty awkward in the beginning, having them both in the same room, on top of mr married's wife being there. But eased up towards the end and actually, ended up having a bit of fun even. This is something, considering all the issues we each have been having. But still, it was done, and it went well. Can't ask for anything more.

Costume party I went to was fun. A lotta , all of them, little darling angels but. man they are tiring
Sunday was spent at the beach. The plan was just to relax and rest, after Saturday. No swimming, no nothing. Just sun, sand, and breeze. Maybe a cold drink or two. But no. The bf and I got talked into participating in a game of volleyball. I didn't bring any extra clothes aside from what I wore there, and had to sacrifice my shorts cos in no way was i going to jump around in my g-string bikini. It was a rather intense 15-20 minute game, before it started raining heavily and I had to take cover. Cos believe it or not, my bikini wasn't made to be wet. Go figure So for all my troubles, to actually go to the beach (which I haven't been to in a loooong time), wanting to relax, instead, I had sand everywhere. Everywhere. Had to change out of my bikini cos they were wet, deal with people staring cos frankly, people here don't deal well with ladies going braless, and having my knee hurt. ANd starting Monday feeling not so well rested :S

Dating someone younger, dating someone older -
I, have the privilege of doing both. The bf is 8 years younger, and mr married is close to 2 decades older. There are, needless to say, positives and negatives of both but I won't indulge in generalizing of both categories but, a few weeks ago, the bf and I decided, on a weeknight, to go out. We went club hopping, and revisited a few clubs that I used to go to few years ago. Given, it was okay, and we had fun. But I, begrudgingly, felt old (gasp!). Majority of the crowd were closer to his age. Now that gave me quite an issue, and i've dealt with it already in the past, but it still somehow reminded me of it

On the other side of the spectrum, we have mr married. He's not slowing down by any means, but there are some things (ok, not a whole lot, frankly) that we can't get to agree with. Not going into specifics, I think for both situations, it could be the nature of our relationship more than anything but still. You know..( if you don't, it ok. Cos I AM being very vague..i realize)
Moving on.

Friend's ex asking you out -
There has been an unusual number of splits over the last few months. Well, those that i know of anyway. Two of those have come to light more than others. Namely because, their exes, have contacted me, asking if I wanted to meet. Ok, to be clear, my friends in both situations, are females. So their ex-boyfriends have contact me, in separate and different occasions.

One - I bumped into him a few weeks back, at a supermarket, of all places, near where I work. We ended up talking and I thought, at the time, he was already being..a bit extra friendly. He texted me to ask me out for coffee the next day cos he was in the area. I went, not thinking much into it. He got a bit dodgy when he gave me vague answers when I asked him about my friend, who he was still dating at the time. And I also thought he was sitting a bit too close to me and was trying to be a bit too 'charm-y'. About a week after that, his texts and calls were a bit more frequent, asking me if I wanted to accompany him to do stuff. I kept telling him i was spending time with my bf, hoping he'd get the hint. Then I found out that it coincided with my friend splitting with him. He told her that he was actually more interested in someone else. It's honest, but shit. That is cold. What a jerk

Two - This one contacted me recently here, actually. Sent me a msg and attached his picture. Um..based on what he wrote, um..I'd say he's moved on pretty quickly. Not too sure about the details of their split but still...not going to happen. I'm not even sure if he knows I am who I am Doesn't matter though. I do, however, think about their relationship differently. Can't help it This friend of mine doesn't seem like such a freak in the bed but then again, it's those that you don't expect that end up surprising you

Anyhow...this is a long one. I guess I better get back to work. Maybe. After the watching the next video....I think

Have a good week ahead!
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Oops, I kinda did it again :P
Posted:Oct 24, 2013 6:36 pm
Last Updated:Nov 14, 2013 5:07 pm
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Been meaning to post something new for awhile now but haven't been inspired enough to log on and write. SO yeah, there are a few things in mind. And when the alternative is dreary work on a Friday, guess there's no better time than now eh?

Caught Gravity, the movie, earlier this week and it's pretty certain, that I am smitten with Sandra. Damn she looks good. I have since dug out all my shorts and wear them, pretty much all the time...or as much as I can get away with it

Halloween's impending and I've been invited to a party at a friend's place and I'm struggling with a costume. This will be the first time they are throwing a Halloween party for their and, well....you'd be surprised at how little costumes are available for adults appropriate for a family-themed party. Been searching online and half the time, I'm thinking...no...don't want to be a vampire that sucks dick or a zombie that eats pussy. Not for this party anyway. Party's tomorrow evening and I'm still coming up empty.

Anyways, on a lighter side. Went to the gym early in the week and was working out on my own, minding my own business when one of the trainers came up and started talking to me. I guess maybe he was bored, but I kinda was trying to do my thing, and he just wouldn't stop talking. So I figured I'd carry on with my workout. When he saw I was reaching for a barbell, he offered to spot me, which was nice, but I asked him to let me get the first few in on my own first, so he came up and stood beside me (which I thought was a little weird cos he was a little close). No big deal, i thought, I'll just move. So I grabbed the barbell from the ground and swung it up, trying to get it over my own head (they were light...like, 10lbs..) except midway through, the right end of the barbell hit something and got stuck. Split second later, I hear this...low level grunt. By this point, I had lost control of the barbell cos the left end was going up and the right end wasn't. So I dropped it. Then I realized that this....over eager instructor was standing too close to me, and when I swung the barbell up, the right end caught him in the nuts. LOL

When the barbell dropped, a lot of the guys turned, and the instructor was trying to not show that it had hurt. He was kinda like standing up, or was trying to stand straight, but was hunched over..hahaha. I just kept apologizing. The guys around me, naturally, laughed. Which, after the shock, made me want to laugh. His friend came over, laughing, and checked on him and dragged him away. I tried not to laugh..finished my workout and left. Saw him on the way out and he looked okay. Well, okay enough to ask if I wanted to go out I just apologized and left.
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Nut smacking...wooops :P
Posted:Sep 30, 2013 9:08 pm
Last Updated:Oct 6, 2013 3:00 pm
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Can't recall the number of times I've been bitching about this to some of my friends. A few weeks ago, I was in a bus, queuing to get off. It was really crowded and I was standing behind this boy in school uniform. He was quite tall but still, you know, a . Anyhow, the bus stopped and he was reaching for his wallet in his back pants pocket and kinda elbowed me in my chest. Well, not so much like an elbow-to-cause-hurt elbow, but because I was so close behind him, his elbow brushed up against my breast and lifted it up LOL I swore it all happened in slow motion, at least to me. I was a little shocked, and, frankly, so was he. He turned around, stammered and apologized, then turned back to face his front, got off the bus and practically ran off. I was just glad it wasn't hard

Last week, I was walking back to my desk at work. I turned a corner and ran into this guy from another department. He was on his phone and he's one of those people that talks with his hands constantly flailing around. So I come round the corner, and this guy's on his phone, and just as I stepped in front of him, his right hand swung and slapped me in my breast. This one hurt like a motherfucker (pardon the language). I just screamed and turned the other direction, before turning back and almost ripped his head off. My scream kinda brought a fair bit of attention to the situation and after awhile, I understood that it wasn't intentional and frankly, he looked more embarrassed than I was. He still seems apologetic

So yea, I've been bitching about this to a few friends of late, and then this morning happened.

It's morning rush hour and I was just about to head up the escalator coming out of the train station. I don't even remember swinging my hand too rigorously, but one second i was walking along, minding my own business, the next, i felt my knuckles hitting something. Split second later, i hear a grunt and see this guy, bent over. Took me a few seconds to realize taht i must've hit him. My knuckles were hurting slightly so I'm guessing, relatively hard. I immediately apologized, and it took him at least a whole minute to finally look up. By this time, we were off the escalator and on the side, allowing others to pass. Then I saw his face and he was tearing :S Then I figured I must have hit him flat out, in his nuts. I just kept apologizing, and couldn't help wanting to laugh very badly.

After insisting he was fine, I kinda left him and ran off to work. I hope he's alright...well, least now we both have a funny story to tell. Least now I have one of my own..
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My weekend drama :)
Posted:Sep 22, 2013 2:29 am
Last Updated:Oct 8, 2013 7:09 pm
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I swear I'm getting too old for this. Feels like I am anyways. Last night was an...interesting night, to say the least. Before we get into that, a bit of a background story. The bf and I have been arguing...a lot. I found out about a week ago that he's been fucking around with this friend of ours. We both have agreed that this would be an open relationship so that in itself, isn't that much of a big deal. This lady and I aren't really that close and I can see how she would seem attractive to him. The fact that they've had a thing going on for awhile now behind my back is the issue I have. I don't get it. He gives me shit sometimes for my other relationships, which he has total knowledge of, and all I had asked for was to be informed. But he chose not to tell me and even denied it. I was more pissed about that than anything.

So yesterday, he claimed he had to work in the day, hence the reason I went off to spend some time with an old friend and lazed at a pool of the hotel he was at. The bf and I were supposed to meet later in the evening, and I was actually on the way back home to change when I saw the bf, and this female friend of ours, in his car. They were driving past me, and I was in a cab. So i texted him to ask if he was still at work, to which he didn't reply. I got home, waited an hour, and gave him another text to tell him that I was heading out, without him, and that I saw him and our mutual friend, and that I was ok with it, only if he could just be honest about it, and that if he wanted to talk, he'd have to wait til tomorrow (which was today),

So anyhow, last night. I ended up hanging out with my visiting friend back at the hotel he was staying at. He was with his companion and they were cool enough to let me hang out with them. It's still the F1 weekend here so we ended up at the bar with a lot of other people just soaking up the fun. Must've been the atmosphere combined with how I was feeling cos we ended up back in the room where we blasted the radio, and his companion and I gave him a two girl lapdance by the window The idea was so that we could all see the race but I couldn't be bothered with any of it.

So if any of you were in a hotel or office somewhere and saw something, then here's a shout out to you

It turned out to be a pretty hot, and cool evening. Never thought I'd get into something like this again, least of all, with this friend of mine but...ah well. The most shocking thing (ok, a little random, I admit ) for me last night was the price of her underwear. She paid about $8000 for a tiny g-string with gems on it. I'd bet my ass he couldn't care any less : But me and her ended up talking about that for quite a bit last night. LOL

SO this morning, I got up early and left them to spend their last day here together. On the way back, I check my phone and the bf gave me 6 missed calls and more than a few msgs. I replied when I got home and he asked if I wanted to play tennis with him. Against my better judgement, I agreed. Suffice to say, I couldn't do much, considering the amount of energy I expended last night, being dehydrated, and severely lacking sleep. Neither of us brought up anything regarding yesterday, but the tennis game got a bit heated up. Think its all the pent up emotions I lost, by the way. Heh..

I was still angsty the entire drive back (he had asked if I wanted to go over and I declined so he sent me back) and the very minute we stepped into my place, an argument erupted. On his way in, he had accidentally kicked me and I spun immediately and lashed out and hit him. He got pissed and it kinda kicked off from there. At one point, he was holding onto my wrist to stop me from hitting him and not sure how, but we ended up kissing

I kicked the main door shut (at this point, we still had our shoes on) and started ripping the clothes off each other. I found hickeys on the inside of his thighs and scratch marks on his back but I didn't say anything. In turn, he ignored the bite marks on my breasts and bruises on my hips and thighs too Guess we've reached that point. We fucked hard, and fast, and kinda soaked up the floor. We then tried to shower, but got distracted again and there was more hair pulling and he added a few more marks on my breasts and thighs, and in return, he left with more scratch marks on his back.

I told him I had a few things I had to get done so he actually just left. I'm really not sure where this relationship is heading but damn...the sex is good. Well, at least So now I'm home, chilling. And that was my weekend. How was yours?
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In need of an anti-creep spray
Posted:Sep 20, 2013 11:07 pm
Last Updated:Oct 24, 2013 5:34 pm
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This is ridiculous..I'm sitting by the pool, trying to add an entry while working on my tan. Seems simple enough, stretching out on a pool chair, laptop on my lap, looking...every so sophisticated Except the glare is so strong I'm having trouble keeping my eyes open, and with my shades on I'm having trouble seeing what's on my screen. And it is crowded out today. So as far as I can, I'm trying not to squint cos that'll kinda seem "uncool"...but I can't frigging help it. LOL Well so much for being cool.

And then there's this crowd. A friend of mine is in town and is checked into a hotel (it's the F1 weekend after all. It's also severely overpriced!) and I'm kinda crashing in to capitalize on some pool time. Except its packed. It's soo damn packed the person beside me can read what I'm typing. IF he can get past the glare...but yea. He seemed particularly interested in looking over every few seconds. Like dude...back off already. (Maybe he saw the sites I was checking out ...is he a member too? Hey!! if you are, and somehow end up reading this, back off!)

Aaaand then there's this guy who's in a disturbingly small, bright green swimming trunks. Look, I understand if you want to sun as much skin as allowed here. I'm doing it too. We all are. But damn...at least bother to trim a little! If we can, so can you!!! ANd I'm pretty damn sure its impolite to take pictures! Especially since he's here with his wife. Or at least I think she's his wife. ANyhow. Must not get irked out....keep calm... Okaay. He's friggin irking me out.

So...hello blogland. Been meaning to add a few posts but it's been hell of late. Well, not exactly hell (that's a lil.....exaggerating)...but uncharacteristically busy. Ok, so I've been working at this new place for about a month now. I'm actually taking over from a friend of mine who has gone on her maternity leave, but that's not what's important. For now. Thing is, I work at this place where there's a really big gym a floor down and we can use it, which I have. Since it's there, I use it quite often on weekdays, and I have taken to leaving a set of clothes in my drawer, which, I don't lock. Towards the tail end of last week, I didn't go so I left a set over the weekend. Then earlier this week, Tuesday evening after work, I took them out, went to the ladies to change before hitting the gym. That was the plan.

Except when I got in and in the midst of changing (and thank god I haven't put them on yet), I noticed a funky smell. Given, I was in the ladies...but it had come from somewhere closer. So I did a sniff test on my stuff and found that it was from my sports bra and my shorts. Upon closer inspection, I noticed stains on them. My bra was white so..not hard to spot. I was dazed and confused for a little while, at first, then I realized that it had actually smelled like dried cum. (Don't ask me how I know how that smells like...unfortunately/fortunately, I guess I've been around :S) After considering that it could be dried cum, i was quite convinced it WAS dried cum. The stains, that reeking stench... Yup. some motherfucker jerked off on my bra and shorts. I was in such a shock, I didn't even get mad. I was just...mortified, and threw them in the bin and ran out. Like what the fuck right?

I disinfected my hands, went home, took like..3 showers I told the bf, who, first reaction was, to laugh (motherfucker) Given, he brought up a valid point after. I had wanted to report it, but I kinda threw away the evidence, and I was sure as hell i wasn't going to go dig it up in the trash. So yea, there's at least one fucking creep who works in the same office as I do. He better not let me find out who he is...
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In need of an anti-creep spray
Posted:Sep 20, 2013 11:04 pm
Last Updated:Oct 6, 2013 8:12 pm
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This is ridiculous..I'm sitting by the pool, trying to add an entry while working on my tan. Seems simple enough, stretching out on a pool chair, laptop on my lap, looking...every so sophisticated Except the glare is so strong I'm having trouble keeping my eyes open, and with my shades on I'm having trouble seeing what's on my screen. And it is crowded out today. So as far as I can, I'm trying not to squint cos that'll kinda seem "uncool"...but I can't frigging help it. LOL Well so much for being cool.

And then there's this crowd. A friend of mine is in town and is checked into a hotel (it's the F1 weekend after all. It's also severely overpriced!) and I'm kinda crashing in to capitalize on some pool time. Except its packed. It's soo damn packed the person beside me can read what I'm typing. IF he can get past the glare...but yea. He seemed particularly interested in looking over every few seconds. Like dude...back off already. (Maybe he saw the sites I was checking out ...is he a member too? Hey!! if you are, and somehow end up reading this, back off!)

Aaaand then there's this guy who's in a disturbingly small, bright green swimming trunks. Look, I understand if you want to sun as much skin as allowed here. I'm doing it too. We all are. But damn...at least bother to trim a little! If we can, so can you!!! ANd I'm pretty damn sure its impolite to take pictures! Especially since he's here with his wife. Or at least I think she's his wife. ANyhow. Must not get irked out....keep calm... Okaay. He's friggin irking me out.

So...hello blogland. Been meaning to add a few posts but it's been hell of late. Well, not exactly hell (that's a lil.....exaggerating)...but uncharacteristically busy. Ok, so I've been working at this new place for about a month now. I'm actually taking over from a friend of mine who has gone on her maternity leave, but that's not what's important. For now. Thing is, I work at this place where there's a really big gym a floor down and we can use it, which I have. Since it's there, I use it quite often on weekdays, and I have taken to leaving a set of clothes in my drawer, which, I don't lock. Towards the tail end of last week, I didn't go so I left a set over the weekend. Then earlier this week, Tuesday evening after work, I took them out, went to the ladies to change before hitting the gym. That was the plan.

Except when I got in and in the midst of changing (and thank god I haven't put them on yet), I noticed a funky smell. Given, I was in the ladies...but it had come from somewhere closer. So I did a sniff test on my stuff and found that it was from my sports bra and my shorts. Upon closer inspection, I noticed stains on them. My bra was white so..not hard to spot. I was dazed and confused for a little while, at first, then I realized that it had actually smelled like dried cum. (Don't ask me how I know how that smells like...unfortunately/fortunately, I guess I've been around :S) After considering that it could be dried cum, i was quite convinced it WAS dried cum. The stains, that reeking stench... Yup. some motherfucker jerked off on my bra and shorts. I was in such a shock, I didn't even get mad. I was just...mortified, and threw them in the bin and ran out. Like what the fuck right?

I disinfected my hands, went home, took like..3 showers I told the bf, who, first reaction was, to laugh (motherfucker) Given, he brought up a valid point after. I had wanted to report it, but I kinda threw away the evidence, and I was sure as hell i wasn't going to go dig it up in the trash. So yea, there's at least one fucking creep who works in the same office as I do. He better not let me find out who he is...
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I pulled a what? Where?
Posted:Sep 14, 2013 6:22 pm
Last Updated:Sep 15, 2013 5:59 pm
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Been struggling to get myself motivated to post something since I got back from my travels but somehow haven't been motivated to...well, do much really. But I thought what happened last night was funny....well, funny now, but not soo much as it happened, but here goes.

It has been a good two months plus since I last went for pole classes and I went for my first one yesterday since I had got back. It was tough, but cos I liked it, it was fun. It was also tiring, using muscles that I have not really used for awhile. Was running on adrenaline after so I didn't really feel it immediately after, and decided, rather foolishly and ambitiously, to join one of my friends who ran off to kickbox class right after. She's about 8 years younger and waaay fitter than I am, but she made it sound fun and I had a free day so, figured, what the hell. I jumped, punched and kicked til my battery went flat and went back really sore. Halfway home, the bf called and suggested we go out at night. Ok, so I went back, showered, changed and we went out for dinner.

At this point, my thighs were already really sore and I was walking ever so gingerly. We've been fighting a lot of late and so far, the evening was going on really smoothly so I figured I'd enjoy it. We were about to drive off to meet some friends when we, or actually, I, started fooling around with him while he's driving. It didn't take much to get his attention and we decided it would be too far to drive back to either of our place, so we decided we'd drive somewhere nearby for a quickie, then go meet up our friends. It was great plan. We got there, jacked our seats back and got down and nasty. All the energy and frustrations of bickering and fighting over the last few weeks, just channeled into a really fiery fuck. It was going, oh so well.

I was in the back seat, my legs spread wide and he was leaning into me, thrusting vigorously away, with his hands behind my knees pressing them up towards my shoulders. We had the AC running at full strength and yet we were, at this point, soaked in sweat. So yea, it was going well. Then the last thing I remember seeing was my underwear around my right ankle with my foot pressed up towards the roof of the car, and my adductor (that's the inside of my thighs) muscles started cramping. It hit me like I was shot. (I'm only likening it to being shot based on what I see in the movies...I have no idea if being shot really feels like this. Nor do I ever want to find out...)

I just screamed and started clawing at him to move his weight away from me. LOL The poor boy was soo shocked he leaned back, slipped and knocked his head against door. At this point, I couldn't fucking care less The inside of my thigh felt like it was about to explode. I don't know what I did but after what felt like an eternity (which was a full 8-12 seconds according to him...but I swear it was longer. Like 3 hours! ) I managed to roll on my belly, straightened my legs out under me and it kinda went away Aaaand we didn't even fucking cum

I spent the next 10 minutes just sitting there cos everytime I tried moving my legs, it threatened to pull. SO we just sat there laughing, then drove back to his place. I was limping and our clothes were soaked through so we didn't bother going out after. We managed to finish up later in the night, minus the spur of the moment, hair pulling, back clawing, fucking in public enthusiasm But yea....thigh cramps....waaaaaay not fucking fun. Literally.
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Where is the love?
Posted:Jul 17, 2013 10:34 pm
Last Updated:Aug 31, 2013 5:53 pm
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Was having coffee yesterday and there was a group of guys sitting at the table behind us. It was a diverse group but I detected at least one American and one Australian accent among the group of 6 guys. Ok, boys. I'm guessing their average age is very close to very early 20s, but I digress.

My whole point is, I overheard their conversation (it's kinda hard not to, they were speaking really loudly and I was right beside them) and amongst other things that were tossed around in their discussion, there was a lot of name calling. Which was fine cos none of it was offensive outrightly, and they do seem like they were having a lot of fun with it. The thing I don't get, and I find this in general, is that the terms 'pussy' and 'dicks' get used in a negative way. Heard this yesterday, "I swear you are such a pussy sometimes..", or "why are you such a dick?". I admit making referrals to the latter quite often in my own conversations with my friends. And that got me wondering, how or when did our genitals come to be associated with the negative behaviour of someone else?

I mean, we put so much emphasis on them, take so much care in getting and seeking pleasure specifically from them. Yet, it's also so common to refer to them in such negative light. Hmm...I say we start a movement and turn things round. "You are such a dick!" should mean positive! Although I've never been called a pussy before. How does that work? I think only guys call other guys pussy...that needs a little bit of work.
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