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World's End Rutter
 
My daemonic, anti-humanist, and existential musings about online dating, and whatever else I want it to be.

I do blogs. I do not do dick pics.
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Standard Contact Blog.
Posted:Dec 8, 2017 2:44 pm
Last Updated:Nov 16, 2018 6:15 pm
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This is for messages from Standard Members. Until Men.Date - Gay Dating joins the 21'st century, this will have to do. All messages will be deleted after a few days.
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XXX rated Blog?
Posted:Nov 27, 2017 6:33 pm
Last Updated:Oct 2, 2018 5:35 pm
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Shit-flinging monkeys? Diarrhea cannons? Know anyone like that? You do now. Me. I blog, and then I go and tip cam girls with the points. Kind of like a next generation motivational speaker whose somewhat full of shit who pisses his money away on strippers. Nothing positive either. Just some cheeky shit where I baited a bunch of mentally ill users into a series of blogs just to kick all of them while they are down from an informal clinical perspective. No one gave me the task. I just did it.

No one can tear me apart better than me either, and I am fully prepared to own anything I blog about, and any position I may hold. Everyone should be prepared to own anything they post here, be it a picture or video, or a blog. I can definitely see how bold some of you are with pictures and videos. I will boldly stand behind any position I hold, and one constant theme will be my anti-humanist perspective with little subject matter being off-limits. Your pics and videos can show you stripped down to the skin. My blog will strip down everything else. That is what I mean by XXX rated blog.
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What is an American woman?
Posted:Dec 8, 2017 11:02 am
Last Updated:Oct 2, 2018 5:37 pm
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What exactly is an American Woman, besides a cautionary song?

It is a cautionary song for a reason folks. American women, since the end of WWII have been in an identity crisis. Subservient domestication was traded in for... what exactly?

Are they improving the status of women, or trying to become, and replace men?

All around me I am seeing feminists encourage a masculinised template of American womanhood; simultaneously as men are having their collective egos destroyed one at a time. We have had decades of affirmative action, and yet no real progress has been made. In fact, it is being undone. Look at Sweden. Look at England. Observe the recent suicide of August Ames, etc... She was bullied for REFUSING SEX! She took her own life Dec 5'th 2017. Anyone want to discuss Alyssa Funke too?

How about Rehtaeh Parsons? She was slut-shamed by everyone close to her, INCLUDING HER IMMEDIATE FAMILY, over an errant episode of auto-erotica two years before she took her own life. She was forced to falsely accuse 2 boys of sexual assault, and she ended herself when she was 17 after 2 years of the predictable public backlash. No one really helped Amanda Todd either. Do you people care enough to look away from your fucking mirrors to even know who they are?

Is this our idea of 'progress'?

Feminists have betrayed themselves, their peers, and their culture! Never have the genders been so divided since BEFORE the suffragettes. There are now calls and debates questioning A WOMAN'S RIGHT TO VOTE.

If this is progress, You selfish parasites can keep it!

We are in the 21'st century, debating 20'th century ideology, and provoking 19'th century levels of unrest, and the idiots in charge are calling this fucking progress!

What's your excuses?...
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Where's your ego at? What are you REALLY doing here?...
Posted:Nov 24, 2017 10:54 am
Last Updated:May 21, 2018 11:27 am
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Do you fit in? How well? how important is that to you?

Do you think your Men.Date - Gay Dating alter-ego is the same 'you' you carry around in your day-to-day life?

Since I started using Men.Date - Gay Dating in 2008, these were the top questions running through my head, and these questions, once I answered them to myself, became the grounding notions I used to judge others who use Men.Date - Gay Dating. Who are they in real life? Are they a conformist or an outlier? How much self-esteem do they have?

You see, real truth begins inward, and if you humble down and ask yourself the hard questions, and answer them back honestly to yourself, you actually unlock a fair way to be outwardly judgmental. This is where I think a good deal of us are going wrong. Our Men.Date - Gay Dating alter-egos, or 'digital egos' are interfering with our real-life egos, or 'analog egos'. I don't know about all of you, but just one ego is plenty to do for me...

The missing link here is honesty, and the worst person to lie to or about is yourself. Many of us have allowed Men.Date - Gay Dating to push us across the line into narcissism. The writing is written all over the walls here. Men.Date - Gay Dating users have different communication protocols than say speaking with someone in person, and the 'ideals' for both genders are muddied up by the luxury of never really having to face mostly those you will never meet anyways. Kind of 'loosens the lips', doesn't it? This is what I am getting at when I describe a 'digital ego' vs an 'analog ego'.

"You see, real truth begins inward, and if you humble down and ask yourself the hard questions, and answer them back honestly to yourself, you actually unlock a fair way to be outwardly judgmental."

It is amazing what human scum emerges from under the rocks when consequence and repercussion are removed from the table for both genders.

We are not our blogs, we are not our pics, even though they resemble us, and we are not our videos either. All of that is a projection of our false ideals on a website which has not significantly changed structurally for more than 10 years. Even with that said, IMO it is still better than Tinder.

Many of you are actually flirting with a serious mental condition classified as Narcissistic Personality Disorder, and a similar condition called Borderline Personality Disorder. These two conditions are society destroyers, and should not be taken lightly. Online dating has been observed for a good amount of time now, and it is apparent that online dating is a catalyst for these conditions.

I have barely been back on here for a month, and I can see online dating has become worse. It also appears to be linked to the social decay we see real-time, and no doubt experts are still observing. This is not solely the fault of Men.Date - Gay Dating. This is all on us, and our tolerance for egotistical double-standards. I only wish more of these experts would speak up. In the long run if this is left unchecked, one of two things are going to happen. One being online dating simply failing to crap like Tinder entirely. Two being the continued destruction of the 'analog ego' in favour of the 'digital ego'.

"Our Men.Date - Gay Dating alter-egos, or 'digital egos' are interfering with our real-life egos, or 'analog egos'. I don't know about all of you, but just one ego is plenty to do for me..."

ref: (for interest's sake)

Sigmund Freud;

- His work on 'ego, id, and superego'.
- His work on narcissism, and influence of 'NPD' and 'BPD' as per the DSM-5

DSM-5; (2013) Conduct Disorders, and Cluster B Personality Disorders.
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Let me put it in layman terms...
Posted:Nov 24, 2017 2:56 am
Last Updated:Nov 24, 2017 1:39 pm
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Maybe I should clear things up based upon the reactions from my blog. I might start posting memes too for ease of clarity, seeing as context and common sense for today are becoming as elusive as manners and etiquette are becoming. I will not be posting many blogs as negatively as this one in the future. This is a blanket reply to the common theme from some critics I have seemingly provoked already.

My profile is not going to be typical. I am 38 years old, and have been in open relationships before. I also live in a small community, which makes meet-ups far more traditional. I have lived, and my outlook here is absurdist, not conformatory. I am an activist, (as opposed to pacifist) and basically have been since I was a . Here are some guidelines:

- Don't assume I have buttons to push. You will hit all the wrong ones anyways;
- I am here as a critic more than a subject;
- Logic is more important than passion to me; and
- Please don't lie or front, otherwise... lol.

Basically if you act like a borderline, narcissistic , you will 'get the hose'. I promise...

I am well read and researched, even though I lack formal Post-Secondary education. I do however think for myself, and encourage individual thought despite lack of training. Group-think subject matter and talking points will not be respected. Those are not hallmarks of education, but of indoctrination into mob mentality. It is best to ignore the verbal diarrhea from the ideas of collectivism. None of the ideas are unique or challenging anyways.

Yes; There will be camgirls in my friends list. That is for ease of access for me, and I would rather support camgirls than pornstars. I can tip them with the points I earn blogging. See how that works?... I invite you to do some research as to why camgirls are better than pornstars, especially for those of you who call themselves feminists these days. Remember, I am an activist, and that means leading by example.
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16 days. Carry on I suppose...
Posted:Nov 20, 2017 10:44 am
Last Updated:Nov 24, 2017 3:13 pm
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So far it has been 16 days. Nothing but chat.

Started the 4'th. Now it is the 20'th. 4 20... swidt... hilarious. ha... ha... ha... Just as funny as my sex life is exciting.

Anyways I get blog points.
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I am looking for orgies and group sex.
Posted:Nov 7, 2017 2:58 am
Last Updated:Nov 24, 2017 3:31 pm
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This is my main purpose for joining this site. That and there is more media potential here, such as blogging, than there is for Tinder. I also want to be better able to remain oblivious in my area. I keep myself in excellent shape, and have traded bar hopping for reading and other community work.

I am quite tolerant about what others partake in around me, but I am for straight action with single or multiple partners. I can tolerate a fair bit so long as everyone is getting something out of it all. Group sex and orgies are what I am ideally searching for, and open minded single women and couples I would consider meeting in person in my area.

Be seeing you around. I rarely send messages, but I do browse profiles and drop the odd like.
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