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redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
2/10/2018 6:03 pm

I voted - Yes - it is sometimes helping.
There are so many factors that play into being "successful" on online dating sites it is difficult to summarize in just one sentence. Think; geography, attractiveness, chemistry, shared desires, expectations, timing . . .

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


lyavu 50F
1538 posts
2/10/2018 7:21 pm

I have opted to just chat with no hope of meeting . Most guys u chat and it gets nowhere . Then u hear from them weeks later you wonder . So i just chat and not meet anyone.


DoctorBooty 43M  
6426 posts
2/10/2018 7:26 pm

Over the years I have been here, yes it helps a good bit.


CampoGirl 57F
43434 posts
2/10/2018 8:48 pm

Men are the shy ones now, all acting like it was their first date to ever set up. Damn, I set them up myself now..leave nothing to my date, or Id end up wall climbing or some dumb shit I dont like,

Now on my Blog: 👄 New Pictures 👓


MyBaffies 54M
4983 posts
2/11/2018 1:44 am

I've had some success in the past but I just use the site for blogging now - I'm not specifically looking for anyone but if anything happens then that's a bonus.

Baffies

Link to my blog: MyBaffies


3FreqsOnnaLeash 54G  
327 posts
2/12/2018 1:43 am

Comes down to expectations vs reality.

Expectations have changed over the years (we have been on Men.Date - Gay Dating since v1.0), we found out quickly that if you treat this as entertainment 1st, and a means to get laid well last, you will be happier.

Reality is there are a LOT of fakes and flakes on here. Single women get hit by waves of rude leg humpers and get jaded. Single men get blames for the aforementioned leg humpers, even the few good guys, and they get jaded. Pretty typical for the internet really.

Women used to get free access, but the fakes and bots killed that feature. In the past this used to be a very active site, lots of action in the chats, regular action in the groups by people setting up events, very useful
Then Facepalm came along and ripped the bottom out of it.
Still, we interact with a lot of people here and use it to advertise our monthly dinner meets. What I have noticed in the last few months is they should change the name to BC Freind Finder, there are a *lot* of new accounts coming up in your area, so compared to those of us South of the Peace Arch, you should do pretty well.


0perose 39M

10/6/2018 9:53 pm

I'd settle for just no bots . Or sales women.


ThatDazzGuy 51M

12/7/2018 2:42 pm

If find it depends on two things; what are your expectations and what is your time commitment? If the former is strictly about hooking up right out of the gate you're likely to be disappointed. If it's about seeing what communities fit you, what chat groups you engage in and how, then you're going to have a lot more fun.

Of course the latter informs the former, especially when it comes to those communities. The more time you put in to develop the relationships, the more likely you will find what you're looking for... even out in the real world.

It's quite the piece of internet real estate and can certainly be a lot of fun.


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