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dan_nl_2006 42M
1117 posts
2/18/2018 9:39 pm

Thanks for sharing... agree 100%


LBDforyourgirl 27M
11 posts
2/19/2018 12:41 am

👀


harbor112 64M
1567 posts
2/19/2018 1:18 am

Interesting


TicklePlease 56F  
13851 posts
2/19/2018 6:22 am

I think I'll anonymously paste this up near the water cooler at work too...

And in case they didn't hear it in the back... TRIM! Not shave, trim!


Desir4Fire 49M
2387 posts
2/19/2018 8:21 am

Love,
This is a fantastic post!!
You should become a sex therapist!!!
One that is hands on!!!


MyBaffies 54M
4983 posts
2/19/2018 9:42 am

Doesn't matter how often you spell it out, some guys will still focus on one thing only.

Themselves.

Baffies

Link to my blog: MyBaffies


boobwhisperer69 61M  
8322 posts
2/19/2018 10:53 am

Guys need to remember, It's all about her! You do that she will blow your mind!!


discreteSteve62 50M
2169 posts
2/21/2018 1:12 am

The article is about a pretty specific setting: a woman who is paying a strange guy for a sexual experience that's about her.

Some of this still applies in more typical situations; casual sex is different; relationship sex is more different.

1. Work on Your Massage Skills

This definitely sounds like a good idea for a casual encounter. Few women are going to expect a professional grade massage, but a good long amateur massage is almost always going to be welcome.

In a relationship, treating one's partner to a professional massage might be better than trying to work out the aches without the training. But if one has a degree of skill at it, that's likely to be welcome too, particularly if the professional massage treat doesn't fit into the schedule.

2. The Power of Kissing

In a casual encounter, this depends on the mood. Some women prefer to reserve kissing to a relationship setting; others always appreciate it. Best policy is to find out what the woman likes.

In a relationship, kissing is almost always a good thing. About the only exceptions would be certain kink scenes.

3. Your Orgasm Isn’t the Main Attraction

My policy: she always gets what she needs first, casual encounter, friend with benefits, or relationship.

Sometimes a woman might just be in the mood to please the guy, particularly in a relationships setting, but it's best to try to please her first unless she really clearly just wants to make it about the guy's pleasure.

4. Trim It Like a Porn Star

Unless it's my only chance to get busy with someone spectacular, shaving my junk is just not going to happen. Even a trim is not high on my list of ways to make myself unpleasantly itchy. And I don't expect women to shave either.

5. Foreplay Matters

Yes, it's obvious.

6. Match Her Game

Also obvious.

7. Match Her Kink

If one doesn't share a partner's kink, even playing along to indulge her can be difficult. But it's a good idea to try; even if an attempt at indulging a kink ends up turning to giggles, it is likely to earn points for trying. But if her kink is a real turn-off, the encounter probably just shouldn't happen.

(Giggles example: a partner wanted a simulated taken-by-force scene and left a door unlocked for me. Her dog was sleeping just inside the unlocked door, and I tripped over the dog and scared the dog, her, and myself. After the the startles calmed, and then the giggles settled, great vanilla sex followed.)

8. There's No “I” In "Sex"

That's a good attitude.


dan_nl_2006 42M
1117 posts
2/21/2018 8:07 pm

I agree some guys are into wham Bham thank you ma’am .
And it has too do with with short timer and 1 time hookup situation.

However if 1 focuses on her, make sure she is satisfied first that strategy always pays off in longer term dividends.....so call me selfish, but this has paid off every time.

Btw i didn’t realize that you run those workshops....seems like an interesting blog topic


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