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Logically, which generally doesn't apply to dating, one's luck would be based on one's goals. If the goal were to find pic to jerk to that is really easy to find here. If the goal is meeting that is not as easy for a variety of reasons we have all read. Since meeting is my goal, then considering how few women there are in my area, less those who aren't attractive to me (for various reasons) or vice versa, I would still say I've been fairly lucky. When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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I've no meeting horror stories to share and I've made a couple of friends from the site, some might consider that to be lucky.
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When I was unattached, I made friends with a woman through the blogs, and we were just starting to make plans to meet for a date, with both sex-friend and relationship potential. Before we got anything scheduled, however, she had a date with another guy on her list of candidates -- and he turned out to be her Mr Relationship. We remained friends until the site banned her account (for no obvious reason), and I kept in touch with her guy for a little while afterwards to congratulate them on their relationship success, even if it meant I didn't get a chance with her. I might have gotten together with them as friends if I hadn't moved away. I also had an extensive e-mail conversation with a woman who had a lot of sex-friend potential and regular friend potential, but didn't seem to likely to be a relationship match. That was close to the time I was planning to move back to Seattle, and she said she didn't want to start things up with a new friend-with-benefits who was about to move, so that didn't happen either. That's pretty much the extent of my "luck" on this site. But once I was in a new relationship (with my now-wife), my definition of luck changed. Now it's a matter of whether I have fun on the blogs -- and I do. It would be nice to meet some blog friends in person, but there's no urgency because the motivation to meet and hang out is not as strong as the motivation to meet, hang out, and get naked. So I'm having better luck now, due to a change in goals.
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