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You have put more than a little thought into this. Very well expressed, too. Sexual intelligence. A related concept I had not considered as yet. I'm certain there is a man out there who can show you that it is so much more than simple physical urge. I hope he finds you. Great post for you, and for our symposium! Thanks, aflower! blog on!
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Wholeheartedly agree
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I feel the same... I don't just want to be a human dildo... I want the woman to be attracted to me as a person. Thoughts from the Garden...
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Thanks for sharing your insight! I enjoyed reading your perspective.
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Sometimes it feels like a catch-22. When my primal side is switched on, my brain is very happy to take a much-needed break. For my primal side to be turned on, though, requires some intelligent effort from the guy's side.
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You made you point, and made it well!! I totally agree!! Congrats for job well done!!! WITHOUT PASSION LIFE IS NOTHING
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What kept me on this site was the chance to read what women, especially mature women, past thirty five or forty years old, have to say about their lives and their sexuality. You have said very well what the majority of women on the site have tried to convey- "I am not an emotionless life support system for a vagina." It's discouraging and depressing that so many men ignore this. It ain't rocket science. Become a member now and get a free tote bag.
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I happened upon a couple different men in a row that are worthy of saying that they don't mind the connection or the work to get to the connection. I know I have been lucky. In some ways, my ex-husband became lazy and didn't want to engage me any more and that contributed to our marriage's break-up and his dissatisfaction. Good post, Kitkat The observant make the best lovers, I may not do right, but I do write, I have bliss, joy, and happiness in my life, Kitkat Come check out my blog KItkat1415 check out this post by me Adventures In Body Grooming #39 April Topic Link: What Lies Beneath If April Showers Oh Bloody Hell What Kind Of Weather Turns Me On Bloggers Symposium 40
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you hit on the proverbial head (cock)! Sexual intelligence is what matters to men...woman want more....pillow talk, foreplay, touching, and bonding, so what men want and what woman want can be different but if the man understands that....being sapiosexual....he can attain sexual nirvana with the woman! “Life is available only in the present moment.” Thich Nhat Hanh Come and read my blog! Become a watcher! veryfunnycple64
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What kept me on this site was the chance to read what women, especially mature women, past thirty five or forty years old, have to say about their lives and their sexuality. You have said very well what the majority of women on the site have tried to convey- "I am not an emotionless life support system for a vagina." It's discouraging and depressing that so many men ignore this. It ain't rocket science. When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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The most disturbing part of your post is your admission (resignation?) that you dumb down profiles and conversations... I realize this may serve to enhance the available pool, but... are the new fish coming through really worth casting a rod over? (or whatever the female equivalent is: "Casting a rod" strikes me as phallocentric.) Ah, well, you seem to pull back: As you note, poly people doesn't necessarily need a grand passion: Some, however, want all-body stimulation to get 'em going (others may be quite happy with the occasional mechanical rub, and power to them.). But... sexual intelligence is more than experience. It's experience combined with self-examination. Seeking that, as you note, is a form of sapiosexuality in and of itself, and it has nothing to do with being able to formulate universal physics theories... Well done, and a fine contribution to the virtual symposium! One request, if I may... would you offer a link to the list of other contributors? Your readers might enjoy seeing how other bloggers tackle the subject... Stop in, read, and offer comments at my "swinging as seen in the media" blog, "Confessions of a Lifestyle Man" humorlife, which is also the home of the monthly virtual symposium. New post: The Virtual Symposium Returns Lets Pick A Topic
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