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rickyspanish76 48M
7843 posts
10/31/2015 5:58 pm

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keithcancook 67M
18358 posts
10/31/2015 6:58 pm

You have put more than a little thought into this. Very well expressed, too. Sexual intelligence. A related concept I had not considered as yet. I'm certain there is a man out there who can show you that it is so much more than simple physical urge. I hope he finds you.

Great post for you, and for our symposium! Thanks, aflower!

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mamacita38dd 45F
62894 posts
10/31/2015 7:04 pm



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FarmGirl6969 61F  
286 posts
10/31/2015 7:10 pm

Wholeheartedly agree


gardenboy321 60M  
41936 posts
10/31/2015 7:27 pm

I feel the same... I don't just want to be a human dildo... I want the woman to be attracted to me as a person.

Thoughts from the Garden...


myelin36 53F
3612 posts
11/1/2015 4:39 am

Thanks for sharing your insight! I enjoyed reading your perspective.

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missthee 58F  
4511 posts
11/1/2015 4:22 pm

Sometimes it feels like a catch-22. When my primal side is switched on, my brain is very happy to take a much-needed break. For my primal side to be turned on, though, requires some intelligent effort from the guy's side.


nightsoul1962 61F
17828 posts
11/2/2015 3:04 am

You made you point, and made it well!! I totally agree!! Congrats for job well done!!!

WITHOUT PASSION LIFE IS NOTHING


kzoopair 72M/71F
25831 posts
11/2/2015 9:01 am

What kept me on this site was the chance to read what women, especially mature women, past thirty five or forty years old, have to say about their lives and their sexuality. You have said very well what the majority of women on the site have tried to convey- "I am not an emotionless life support system for a vagina."

It's discouraging and depressing that so many men ignore this. It ain't rocket science.

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KItkat1415 61F  
20051 posts
11/2/2015 1:34 pm

I happened upon a couple different men in a row that are worthy of saying that they don't mind the connection or the work to get to the connection.

I know I have been lucky. In some ways, my ex-husband became lazy and didn't want to engage me any more and that contributed to our marriage's break-up and his dissatisfaction.

Good post,
Kitkat

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veryfunnycple64 60M/60F
21770 posts
11/2/2015 6:34 pm

you hit on the proverbial head (cock)! Sexual intelligence is what matters to men...woman want more....pillow talk, foreplay, touching, and bonding, so what men want and what woman want can be different but if the man understands that....being sapiosexual....he can attain sexual nirvana with the woman!

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redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
11/4/2015 3:09 pm

    Quoting kzoopair:
    What kept me on this site was the chance to read what women, especially mature women, past thirty five or forty years old, have to say about their lives and their sexuality. You have said very well what the majority of women on the site have tried to convey- "I am not an emotionless life support system for a vagina."

    It's discouraging and depressing that so many men ignore this. It ain't rocket science.
What he said ^

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


humorlife 56M
5710 posts
11/9/2015 5:11 am

The most disturbing part of your post is your admission (resignation?) that you dumb down profiles and conversations... I realize this may serve to enhance the available pool, but...

are the new fish coming through really worth casting a rod over? (or whatever the female equivalent is: "Casting a rod" strikes me as phallocentric.)

Ah, well, you seem to pull back: As you note, poly people doesn't necessarily need a grand passion: Some, however, want all-body stimulation to get 'em going (others may be quite happy with the occasional mechanical rub, and power to them.).

But... sexual intelligence is more than experience. It's experience combined with self-examination. Seeking that, as you note, is a form of sapiosexuality in and of itself, and it has nothing to do with being able to formulate universal physics theories...

Well done, and a fine contribution to the virtual symposium! One request, if I may... would you offer a link to the list of other contributors? Your readers might enjoy seeing how other bloggers tackle the subject...

Stop in, read, and offer comments at my "swinging as seen in the media" blog, "Confessions of a Lifestyle Man" humorlife, which is also the home of the monthly virtual symposium. New post: The Virtual Symposium Returns Lets Pick A Topic


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